Thinking of your ex being with someone else is a very hurtful thing. As in thinking of your ex sleeping with someone else.
How does that feel like?
It will be so hard for you especially if you are still in love with your ex.
Thinking of your ex with someone else can make you do desperate things.
For instance, if you were so much into your ex, you will find yourself talking about your ex even going to an extent of thinking of getting back with him or her.
Sometimes it’s very hard to get over someone you loved so much.
This will make you continue thinking about your ex in the worst scenarios.
The first of the worst scenarios is thinking of your ex sleeping with someone else. You will definitely be burning inside to an extent you may think of killing yourself. Regrets at this point will be full on your side.
You will blame yourself for the break yet everyone played part in that break-up.
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The thought of my ex with someone else kills me.
These thoughts of you thinking about your ex with someone else will keep on hurting you if you haven’t moved on from him or her.
Everyone will get haunted by these thoughts if they haven’t moved on from the break-up.
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So, don’t blame yourself for thinking about your ex with someone else.
The thought of your ex with someone else will kill you when you are still into your ex. If you still have feelings for your ex despite the kind of break-up you had. You will always feel hurt by these kinds of thoughts.
This will not do you good at all.
You won’t be able to move on from your ex if you will keep on clouding your mind with thoughts about him or her.
You have to be strong and remember the relationship between the two of you ended.
Find a new path and things to occupy your life with.
If you broke up with him or her don’t expect your ex to be single.
He or she will obviously find someone else.
This is something normal and every person will come across this kind of thought.
This doesn’t mean that you have to entertain this thought. Focus on something else and work on improving yourself.
To be honest, I usually advise most of my friends to move after their breakups but I usually find myself thinking about my ex though we broke up about 4 years ago.
I do admit that if you had a strong connection with your ex that you never had with someone else then it will be hard for your ex to get out of your head.
You might forget him or her after one year but a cloud of thought about him or her will one moment surround your head.
You will find it hard to get it out of your head.
This is something that happens.
Anyway, as time goes by these thoughts will completely disappear.
All you have to do is to give yourself time and occupy your life with someone else.
If you want to stop thinking about your ex, this is an article I wrote in Her Beauty that will help you achieve that.
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Seeing my ex with someone else kills me.
If you still have feelings for your ex and you broke up when you least expected it then when you see your ex with someone else this will hurt you like hell.
These attachments that you still have for your ex will make you continue thinking about him or her.
When you see your ex with someone else and yet you still have the attachments to him/her this will hurt you. It’s a hard thing to encounter for anyone who is still into his or her ex. Though, there is nothing you can do about it but work on moving on.
If your ex is with someone else you will have to accept the fact that he or she moved on.
It’s your turn to move on.
There is nothing you can do about your ex being with someone else.
You can’t force a relationship with your ex if you dumped him or her.
Forcing yourself to be with him or her will make you seem so desperate to your ex. He or she might in turn take advantage of you and manipulate you. Your ex will do this because he or she knows there is nowhere you can go.
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Is it bad to force your ex to love you again?
You should not force your ex to be in a relationship with you if he or she moved on.
Some so many people are ready to accommodate you in their lives. Why degrade yourself to someone who doesn’t see your worth?
Forcing yourself to your ex to love you again is a bad thing. You should never do this. After all, your ex might start using you because you are too desperate. Also, you won’t make any progress in your love life if you keep on going back instead of forward.
There is no need to keep someone who left your life in your palms. It will only deprive you of your happiness and make your life so miserable.
Trust me I was in your shoes too.
I even kept all the letters that my ex sent me. Furthermore, I still have the break-up letter that my ex wrote to me last.
I kept on convincing my ex to come back in my life, though the more I did that the more she kept on blaming the things that I did in the past.
It kept on hurting me and I couldn’t let any girl fall in love with me, I never let anyone fully in my heart because my mind was clouded by the thoughts of my ex.
She told me to burn the letter when we last talked. I promised her I would burn them but I never did.
I lied to her.
I couldn’t burn those letters because I think I’m still attached to her.
Anyway, I’m over her. I will eventually burn all the letters after this semester.
Imagine I left those letters in my box of books at home in Mombasa, Kenya.
If you broke up with someone there is no need to keep your attachment to him or her.
The moment you keep these attachments you will keep on hurting yourself whenever you think of him or her.
It will hurt you most when you see your ex with someone else.
So, you have to accept the fact that your relationship with him or her never worked out. Try to move on.
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