I Told A Guy I Like Him Now What? Here’s What Next

If you told him that you like him and how you feel about him then you should wait for him to tell you what he feels about you.

 

This is the starting point of another relationship.

 

When you told him that you like him, things changed and he has to process if he feels the same about you or not.

 

In most cases, it is not common for guys to tell you to let me think about it.

 

Wait for his answer.

 

So, if you told him that you like then the answer that you will get from him will be either he likes you too or not.

 

This is what you should first prepare yourself for.

 

Don’t have high expectations of him letting you in. It can be that he was handling you nicely and you thought that he felt the same for you but you may have been wrong all that time.

 

Having a high expectations of him letting you in will hurt you so much when he tells you that he doesn’t feel the same for you.

 

But if he feels the same for you then it will be the happiest day of your life.

 

Let me start with what you should do in case he doesn’t feel the same for you.

 

If he doesn’t like you.

 

If you have told him how you feel about him and he tells you that he doesn’t feel the same for you then don’t get discouraged. There are billion people in this earth and you don’t have to worry that you will not find someone who feels the same for you.

 

You should accept the fact that not all people will feel the same way for you.

 

And when he says he doesn’t like you it’s not the end of the world.

 

You can still enjoy your life.

 

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You should have an open mind in this world if you don’t want to get hurt.

 

Be flexible and always expect any side of a coin.

 

It can be that you like him but he only likes you as a friend and he doesn’t want that to change.

 

Also, it can be that you like him, but he likes someone else that he can’t have.

 

So, relationships are a bit complicated and you will have to take it easy on yourself.

 

You can’t have it all.

 

If he tells you that he doesn’t like you be happy about it because if he was a bad person he would have taken advantage of how you feel about him and use you. And this would have made you curse him for making your life miserable.

 

The other side of the coin is this.

 

If he likes you too.

 

If he tells you that he likes you too then this is the starting point of another relationship.

 

You should now think of how you want to take your relationship. Do you want to take your relationship speed or slow?

 

This is all up to you, but I have something to share with you.

 

When you have told a guy that you have feelings for him and he tells you that he feels the same for you then you should structure your relationship in a way you want it to be. Talk to him and ask yourselves what you want and expect from each other.

 

Be real with what you want from each other so that you don’t end up regretting getting into that relationship.

 

If you don’t know what you want from each other then you should figure that out before you decide to seriously commit to the relationship.

 

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When you know what you want from a relationship you will have a clear picture of what you want and expect from each other.

 

You will also be able to set your relationships goals that will keep you on track so that you don’t do things that will not add value to your relationship.

 

Most relationships fail because people never think of this part. This is something hard to figure out and most people run to the pleasure forgetting that it never lasts.

 

So, don’t get carried away with what you feel about each other and do things that will not add value to your relationship.

 

Take time to figure out what you want from each other and what you will do day by day to make the great relationship that you are aiming for.

 

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This also will make you know if the guy truly feels the same for you or he just said yes to use you.

 

This is the part where you will know if he truly loves you if he plans to settle down with you or he just said yes because he wants to go along with you for the ride.

 

A guy who truly loves you will be so concerned about what you want to achieve from that relationship.

 

He will not care about the short term things. When you see this from him then know that he truly loves you and he is ready to settle down with him.

 

But if he doesn’t bother focusing on the planning part and he only wants pleasure from you then know that he doesn’t love you.

 

It’s lust that drove him to say yes to you but it’s not because he feels the same for you.

 

This is a very crucial part and you should not skip this at any point if you want to have an amazing relationship with him.

 

The next thing you should do is to determine how you are going to achieve the things you have implemented in your relationship with him. Think of ways you are going to attain all these things you have planned with him.

 

The goals you have set will guide you.

 

You will not be dating for the sake of dating but you will be aware of what you are working on every week, month or year.

 

This will make your relationship amazing and you will be motivated to do something more every time you reach your milestone.

 

This is what you should do next after you have told him how you feel for him.

 

Lastly…

 

You should never rush the relationship once he has said yes to you. Take things slow, but not too slow.

 

Go with a moderate pace that will allow you to take control of the relationship.

 

When you move the relationship fast it might fail easily and you will be the one to blame.

 

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The moment you take it slow you will be able to know if you truly had feeling for him or it was just an infatuation.

 

Also, you will be able to observe him and know if he feels the same for you or he just wants to use you.

 

You should also understand that relationships come with their challenges and be ready to face them.

 

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Some guys will just say yes when you express your feelings to them because they want to manipulate you.

 

It’s important to be cautious.

 

I wish I had someone to tell me this when I first started dating. You are too lucky to get suck kind of information for free. If it has helped you a lot leave your comment to compliment me.

 

 

Thanks so much for reading, if you have any questions or additional tips leave your comment. See you in my next article.

 

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