What A Ghoster Thinks When You Ignore Him

When a guy decides to ghost you and you leave him alone, ignore him or even block him there are several things he will conclude about you.

 

In this article, I will share with you what a ghoster will think when you decide to leave him alone.

 

Sometimes a guy will ghost you just to make you chase him. If you have never known this then take note of it.

 

There is a feeling that guys get when they choose to ghost you.

 

If you want to know how guys feel when they ghost you then don’t forget to read the article below.

 

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When a guy ghosts you intentionally there are some things that he expects to achieve from that.

 

There is always a reason why a guy chooses to ghost you intentionally.

 

Though it’s not all guys who will ghost you intentionally.

 

With that much said, let me share with you what a ghoster thinks when you leave him alone.

 

What a ghoster think when you ignore him;

1. He ends up thinking you don’t need him.

 

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When a guy ghosts you sometime he usually does it to see if you truly need him or not.

 

So, when he decides to ghost you for you to make an effort of reaching out to him and you fail to do it he will think that you don’t need him.

 

A guy who ghosts you intentionally will expect you to find a way to get back to him.

 

This is what will make him feel that you need him.

 

The moment you chose to ignore him after he has ghosted you, you make no effort of getting back to him, he will conclude you never needed him.

 

The moment he concludes that you never needed him he will never get back to you.

 

He will not contact you and your relationship with him will end that way.

 

So, if a guy ghosts you and you care so much about him you should try hard to get back to him.

 

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If you will chose not to make any effort to find him and be in touch with him again he will conclude that you don’t want anything to do with him.

 

But if you don’t care about him and he ghosted you then leave him alone.

 

You wouldn’t have lost anything.

 

2. He thinks you have moved on from him.

When a guy ghosts you, he will always expect you to reach out to him.

 

That is if he thinks you care so much about him.

 

If you care about your relationship with him then you will do everything to find out what is wrong with him.

 

This will force you to make an effort in contacting him and asking him how he is doing.

 

The moment a guy ghosts you and you decide to ignore him and leave him alone for good the only thing he will think is that you have moved on.

 

If you used to date then he will conclude that you have someone else and he will never bother getting back to you.

 

Don’t be surprised when you meet him 2 years later he is married and he has two kids with him.

 

When you ignore a guy who ghosts you he will think you are over him since if you were not over him then you would have done everything to get back to him.

 

3. He thinks you don’t care about him.

 

when you ignore a guy who ghosts you

When a guy ghosts you intentionally to see what you will do then this is what he will think.

 

The moment a guy ghosts you and you decide to leave him alone he will conclude that you don’t care about him.

 

If he thinks that you don’t care about him, if he had a thing for you he will lose interest in you.

 

He will not bother getting in touch with you again because he thinks you don’t care about him.

 

Anyway, if you care about a guy who ghosted you then you will try everything to get back to him.

 

You will use every means you can so that he gets to be in touch with you again.

 

When you don’t care about someone who ghosted you there is no way you will stress yourself finding a way to get in touch with him.

 

So, when he ghosts you and you leave him alone he will think that you don’t care about him and even if he was planning to text you he will not do it.

 

If you were about to start a relationship with him then this will not happen.

 

On the other side, if you were dating then this is something that will ruin your relationship.

 

4. He ends up thinking that you wanted him to leave.

If you were not on good terms with a guy, you kept arguing every day and eventually he decide to ghost you, when you leave him alone he will think that you wanted him to leave.

 

Anyway, if you are not on good terms with someone and they decide to distance themselves away from you and you don’t make a point of getting back to them to fix your issues they will conclude you wanted them to be distanced.

 

And that is why if you had an argument with your partner and he distanced himself from you because of that argument you have to make an effort to get closer to him.

 

Don’t wait for him to get close to you to work things out because that will keep you distanced from each other for longer.

 

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When a guy ghosts you and you don’t make any effort to get him to be in touch with you again he will think that you wanted him to leave.

 

And this kind of thought is what will keep him ghosting you until when you will make an effort to reach out to him.

 

So, if you know that a guy ghosted you because of a fight that you had, make an effort to reach out to him.

 

This is will make him realize that you care about him and that you want to fix the issues between the two of you.

 

But if you don’t care about him then don’t bother getting back to him if he ghosts you.

 

Leave him alone.

 

5. He thinks he has hurt your feelings.

 

When you ignore a guy who ghosted you

This is something else a guy who ghosts you will think when you leave him alone.

 

It’s not always that they think about themselves when they ghost you.

 

At one point a guy will think about you and the situation you are in if he used to care about you.

 

So, when a guy ghosts you and you choose to leave him alone for doing so, he will think that he has hurt your feelings.

 

And that is why when a ghoster decides to get back to you he will start apologizing for doing it.

 

He will apologize for ghosting you because he knows that what he did is something that hurt your feelings.

 

Lastly…

 

When a guy ghosts you and you care about him, you had a relationship with him going, don’t just leave him alone if you want that relationship to go on.

 

Make an effort of getting him back to be in touch with you.

 

Some guys will ghost you intentionally just to see your reaction.

 

What you will do after a guy ghosts you is what he will use to judge what you feel about him.

 

If he ghosts you and you leave him alone he will conclude you never felt a thing about him, you never cared about him and he will never bother to get back to you.

 

But if the guy who ghosts you is someone you don’t care about then there is no need to be worried about what he will think when you decide to leave him alone.

 

Thanks for reading, if you have any questions leave your comment. See you in my next article.

 

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4 thoughts on “What A Ghoster Thinks When You Ignore Him”

  1. When a guy ghosts you it’s cowardly and cruel, not only does it make you feel alone but you have to grieve them with no closure. I wouldn’t be trying to contact them, from my experience they couldn’t care less about you, if they did they never would have made the decision to ghost in the first place because you don’t intentionally go out of your way to hurt the people you love.

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    • Hello Amanda, thanks for your comment. When a guy ghosts you it’s cruel, he doesn’t care about you and you shouldn’t bother trying to get in touch with him. Just ignore him and focus on the people who care about you.

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  2. This is the worst article I have ever read, it is victim blaming. A man literally stops speaking to you and yet you need to continue to reach out to him to pump his ego up? No, immediately no. Any one reading this do not believe a word that this article states. He ghosted you, leave it. He does not deserve your energy because his poor ego may be shattered. Ugh. This was definitely written by a fuck boy.

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    • Hello Katie, the article is mainly about what a ghoster thinks when you ignore him. If a guy ghosts you there are two things you can do depending on how you feel about him. The first thing you can either choose to leave him alone or the second thing you can do is to try to get back at him.

      As I said, some guys will ghost you to just test you, but we have those guys who will ghost you intentionally.

      If there is a chance you can get back to him and keep the relationship going then you should do it. It won’t be a problem if you decide to leave him and find someone else if you don’t think it’s worth fighting for that relationship.

      Katie, the way you handle your issues, you handle your relationship is not the exact way someone else would use it. We are entitled to different opinions and that is how the world roles. Learn to respect other people’s opinions.

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