What Do You Do When A Girl Treats You Badly?

If your girlfriend treats you badly then you have to do something about it.

 

This is because there is no way you will be happy around her with how she treats you.

 

Before I start sharing with you what you can do about this situation there is something I would like you to know.

 

What does it mean when a girl treats you badly?

When a girl treats you badly it means she doesn’t care about you. This is the first thing you can conclude from her behaviour. If she really cared about you then she wouldn’t want to see you unhappy around her. This means she would have treated you in the best way possible.

 

There is no excuse for her to treat you badly.

 

You can conclude maybe she is having a bad day and that is why she is so mean to you.

 

But there is more to it.

 

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What you should know is that the way your girlfriend treats you is the exact way she feels about you.

 

There is something you can do about this.

 

You can still change her if she treats you bad. Some of them are their nature to treat their guys badly because of their past experiences.

 

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What to do when your girlfriend treats you badly;

1. Find out why she treats you badly.

This is the first thing you can do if your girlfriend treats you badly. You have to find out why she treats you that way.

 

Don’t push her away or break up with her immediately simply because she is treating you badly.

 

You have to find out why she is treating you that way, maybe you can find a solution to this.

 

The fact that she is your girlfriend tells me that you can still change this situation.

 

You can find these reasons by talking to her about how she treats you.

 

Make her open up to you and she will eventually tell you why she treats you that way.

 

You can also analyse her current situation and the things she is going through.

 

It can be that the problems she is facing in her life are what makes her treat you that way.

 

Once you find out why she treats you like you are nothing then it’s time for you to fix this problem.

 

2. Fix any misunderstanding between the two of you.

If you found out that she is treating you badly because of an issue that you can fix then go ahead and fix that issue.

 

For instance, if she treats you badly because she is mad at you.

 

Then this is something you can fix. Trust me, when you have annoyed your girlfriend and there is a negative tension between the two of you then don’t expect her to treat you nicely.

 

This tension that is in between the two of you will make her aggressive and she will never treat you nicely.

 

You will have to take away the issues that make her treat you badly.

 

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Also, if you find that she is not treating you nicely because of her situation then try your best to find a way how you can help her out.

 

Once you solve this issue then you will get her to treat you nicely.

 

3. Let her know how you feel about how she treats you.

Have you talked to her about how she treats you? If you haven’t, then this may be the main reason why she doesn’t want to change.

 

It can be that your girlfriend knows the way she treats you is the exact way how you want her to be treating you.

 

It can also be that she is not aware that she is treating you badly.

 

So, take your time and talk to her about it. Be open enough to her and tell her how you feel about how she treats you.

 

If you tell her how you feel about how she treats you she might start to change how she handles you if she still cares about you.

 

But if you will say nothing to her there is no way she will change how she treats you.

 

4. Teach her how you want to be treated.

You have to trust me on this, some girls don’t know how to love or treat guys.

 

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It can be that she doesn’t know the meaning of treating a man nicely.

 

So, take your time and tell her how you would like to be treated.

 

You never know, she may be treating you that way because she has no idea of how you want to be treated.

 

Give her your guidelines and how you would like to be handled by her. She will eventually change how she handles you.

 

5. Treat her nicely.

Don’t expect your girlfriend to treat you nicely if you are not willing to do the same.

 

You have to understand that a relationship is always two-way traffic. There is no way you will receive something from someone if you are not willing to give something.

 

If you don’t respect your girlfriend don’t expect her to respect you.

 

So, if you know you are not treating her nicely then this might be the same reason why your girlfriend is not treating you nicely.

 

Change the way you treat her and she will eventually do the same.

 

You can start by changing how you talk to her. Don’t yell at her when she is around you.

 

If she does anything wrong don’t raise your hand to hit her. Be kind to her and treat her in a way she has never been treated before.

 

The moment you treat her nicely then she will also do the same.

 

So, if you know your girlfriend is never happy with the way you treat her then this is something for you to change.

 

6. Make her interested in you.

She is treating you that way because her interest in you is fading. If she was deeply into you then she wouldn’t have been treating you that badly.

 

As I earlier said, the way she treats you is the way she feels about you.

 

So, if you notice she is not treating you the way you want then try to make her interested in you.

 

Revive the interest she had in you when you first met.

 

You can do this by treating her the way you used to when you first met her. Give her your attention and spoil her with love and affection.

 

The moment she will be interested in you again she will start feeling you.

 

And when this happens, the ways she treats you will change.

 

This is because she will care so much about you and she will always want you to be happy when you are around her.

 

You can get her interest back by doing the following things in the article below.

 

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7. Give her time to change.

This is something else you can do if your girlfriend is not treating you nicely.

 

If you have talked to her about how she treats you and explained to her how you feel about it then give her time to analyze it.

 

Let her figure out how she can treat you nicely. This is because it’s very hard for someone to change so soon.

 

Change is a process and it’s something that happens gradually.

 

So, give her time to try to change herself and be optimistic that she will change the way she handles you.

 

When you do this then you will have a chance of making the best out of her.

 

But if you force her to make a sudden change no way that is going to happen and you will end up losing her.

 

You can’t force someone to change. If she loves you then she will change for you.

 

She treats me bad but I can’t let go

If she treats you bad but you can’t let her go and you can’t change her either then you will be hurting yourself. You will be putting yourself in a toxic relationship and it’s never a good thing for anyone. The more you hold on to her the more you will end up hurting yourself.

 

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If she treats you badly and you can’t change her the best thing you will have to do for yourself is let her go.

 

There is no way you will be happy around her if she treats you badly and you keep on holding on to her.

 

My girlfriend says she loves me but treats me bad

If your girlfriend says that she loves you but treats you bad then she is faking it. She doesn’t love you and you should let her go. The way someone treats you is the same way he or she feels about you.

 

A girl who loves you will treat you nicely because she wouldn’t want to see you hurt and unhappy.

 

If she treats you like you are nothing then nothing justifies her love for you.

 

Lastly…

 

If your girlfriend treats you badly then you have to try your best to change her.

 

Talk to her about how she treats you and let her know the danger she is putting your relationship in.

 

Teach her how you would like to be handled if she doesn’t know. It can be that she is not aware of how she should treat you.

 

Try to bring her interest back if you find her interest is fading.

 

When you have tried everything you can to change her and she keeps treating you bad then you will have to let her go.

 

There is nothing you can do about this situation but to let her go.

 

This shows that she doesn’t love you and the more you keep staying with her the more you will end up hurting yourself.

 

Thank you for reading, if you have any questions leave your comment. See you in my next article.

 

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