I know you may be surprised when a guy wants to be friends with benefits. This is especially when he doesn’t want a relationship with you.
So, in this article, I will be sharing everything you need to know about friends with benefits.
Before I go too deep in this topic let me tell you what friends with benefits mean to a guy.
When a guy says he wants to be friends with benefits with you he means that he just wants to have a sexual relationship with you without any strings attached. He will only be with you when he wants to have sex with you.
Furthermore, there will be no night dinners, walks at the park and anything that shows commitment.
A Friends with benefits relationship is only meant for sex.
So, when a guy wants to be friends with benefits relationship then this is what he is trying to imply.
You only get in touch with him when you want sex from him and he will also do the same.
If you are new to this I know you may be confused why a guy would want such kind of a relationship.
Don’t worry I will explain everything to you in this article.
Reasons why guys want friends with benefits relationships.
If you don’t know why guys want friends with benefits only then open your eyes to what you are about to read.
These are the reasons why guys want friends with benefits relationships;
- Guys want friends with benefits relationships because they don’t want to be committed in a relationship.
- Guys want friends with benefits relationships because they are only after sex with you.
- Guys want friends with benefits relationships because they don’t want to invest their feelings in anyone.
- Guys want friends with benefits relationships simply because most of their serious relationships never work out the way they expected.
- Guys want friends with benefits relationships because they want to hook up with different people at the same time.
- Guys want friends with benefits relationships because it is very easy to handle such kind of a relationship—it doesn’t need any skills other than being freakish amazing in bed.
- Guys want friends with benefits relationships because when they don’t have money to spend on you. This is especially to guys who are struggling financially.
- Some guys want friends with benefits relationships so that they can get a good sexual experience before they end up in a serious relationship.
- Guys will want friends with benefits relationship with you when they notice that you can’t handle a relationship the way they want.
- Guys will want friends with benefits relationship with you when they know you are dating someone else yet you like them.
These are some of the reasons why guys prefer friends with benefits to a serious relationship.
What do friends with benefits do together?
As I said earlier that friends with benefits relationships only involves two people having sex together without attachment.
So, by now you know the answers to what friends with benefits do together. I will not let you hang there buddy.
If you want to know what friends with benefits do together, then this is what you should know. Friends with benefits can romance, have sex, romance, bed games like pillow fights, share past experiences about their sexual relationships and enjoy the time they have together after having sex.
As you have noticed most of the things that I have mentioned that friends with benefits do is mostly indoors.
But this doesn’t mean that friends with benefits can’t go out together. They can also go shopping together and help each other in anything that matters to their lives.
In most cases, after a bumpy ride of sex everyone walks away separate ways.
The only time they will meet again is when they are horny. That is what friends with benefits do.
Do guys fall in love with friends with benefits?
This is something that can happen. I have to be honest with you I was once in such kind of a relationship.
I was in friends with benefits relationship with a girl whom I met at high school some years back.
The main reason why I entered friends with benefits relationship with that girl it’s because I really liked her and having a relationship with her was impossible.
She had a boyfriend. Though, she told me that her boyfriend was far away. I asked her if she will be cool with friends with benefits relationships and she finally said yes.
I can’t lie she was the first girl who gave me experience in the whole field of sex.
I never thought I would fall in love with her. But I found myself asking for more than just sex from her.
I told her that I would like we date but she told me it was impossible, so I should only stick to friends with benefits.
So, if you want to know if guys can fall in love with friends with benefits then this is what I can tell you from my own experience.
Guys can fall in love with friends with benefits especially when the sex is so great. Good sex can make a guy be obsessed with a woman and he might eventually want more from her than just sex. So, guys can fall in love with friends with benefits.
I’m telling you this from my own experience. I felt bad when she told me that we couldn’t date but I had to accept the fact that a relationship with her will never happen.
I moved on.
Can friends with benefits turn into a relationship?
Friends with benefits can turn into a relationship it all depends on the connection between the two of you.
Friends with benefits can turn into a relationship if you both have feelings for each other and you are all comfortable taking it to something serious. If you feel that you both want more from each other than just sex then you can turn it into a relationship with specified goals.
Though, before you decide to turn it into a relationship make sure it’s not lust that made you want to turn it into a relationship.
The main reason I’m telling you this is that sometimes it can be hard to differentiate between lust and love.
Do friends with benefits talk every day?
This is up to you to decide if you want to talk every day with friends with benefits.
What I know is that friends with benefits don’t talk every day simply because there is no commitment between them. They only get in touch when they want to have sex. Though, they can talk twice or thrice a week.
Constant communication is only meant for those who are in a serious relationship.
For friends with benefits in most cases, they only talk when they want to have sex.
How long can friends benefits relationship last?
The time in which friends with benefits relationship can last depends on various factors.
Though, what I have seen from myself and my closest friends their friends with benefits relationship lasted for about 4 to 5 months before they ended it. When people no longer feel each other they can call a quit any time. This is because the thing that determines how long it can last is the sexual desires for each other.
If the sexual desires of the people who are in friends with benefits relationship are always active it can go for even a year.
Is it really worth entering friends with benefits relationship?
I want to be honest with you, everything that people do have advantages and disadvantages.
If you are in a relationship with someone else and it’s serious then there is no need to enter into friends with benefits relationship with anyone. Instead, focus on building your relationship.
Invest your time and feelings for one person, in that way you will be able to make your relationship successful and reach its full potential.
The time you would have wasted on friends with benefits relationship with someone else use it to make the best out of your relationship.
If you are in a relationship and you have a chance to save your relationship and make it better it’s not worth entering friends with benefits relationship. But if you are single and not ready to commit to any relationship and you feel the urge of having sex then it’s worthy for you to give it a shot.
Some guys will only want to use you when they want to be in friends with benefits relationship with you. Get it that friends with benefits relationship is all about sex, no commitment, no dates, no relationship goals or anything that shows a gesture of a serious relationship.
So, if you are ready for it go ahead and give it a shot.
When you feel that you will not be comfortable with such kind of a relationship there is no need to enter it. No matter how much you love the guy.
Let him go, you will eventually, find someone willing to give you what you want.
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