What does it mean to walk away from someone? How do you walk away from someone? All these questions will be answered in this article.
Walking away from someone is to leave someone due to several reasons that made it impossible for you to stay. It may be that you are treated badly by them, the relationship between them and you is toxic, and if you don’t feel right staying with them.
Walking away from someone sometimes maybe something that you might think it’s the best thing for you.
We have some situations that we come across in the lives that never allow us to stay in certain relationships no matter how much we feel loved and needed.
For instance, you are in a relationship with someone who doesn’t care about you, he or she treats you like trash, he or she uses, he or she makes you feel bad about yourself and makes your life unworthy living.
In such a case you will have to walk away from these kinds of people no matter how much you need them.
The other thing is that you might be in a relationship but it doesn’t feel right at all being in such a relationship.
You don’t feel comfortable and free in that relationship. Furthermore, you can’t be yourself in it. When you are in such kinds of relationship then you will have to walk away from them.
Some people will never understand why you walked away but deep down you know best about the thing you decided to do.
What does it mean when someone walks away?
When someone walks away from your life then this means he or she is leaving everything about you behind because he or she can’t bear being around you. The moment someone decides not to be part of your life then he or she definitely walking away.
Has someone ever walked away from you?
It once happened to me, it was a painful thing in my life. It hurts so much when someone walks away from your life when you thought he or she was going to stay with you for eternity.
Anyways, if someone makes the decision of leaving you then from your life then know that he or she has completely reached the age where turning back to him or her might be impossible.
Is it okay to walk away from someone you love?
Walking away from someone is usually your own decision. What I know is that no one will make a decision in his life unless he or she has solid reasons.
Walking away from someone you love is okay when;
You are treated bad, your life is being controlled, the person you love keeps hurting you, you see no future with him or her and if you feel that it doesn’t feel right to be in a relationship with him or her.
So, if you feel that the relationship is weighing on you too much and it makes your life hell-living then this means you don’t deserve to stay with such kind of person even if you love him or her.
You will have to walk away from him or her if your relationship with him or her doesn’t seem to have any positive outcomes for you.
Don’t force yourself to stay in a relationship yet you are treated badly because you are in love with him or her.
Let love not fool you, there are so many people out there who are willing to treat you nicely and you will eventually find love.
If you don’t feel that the relationship you have with him or her is suitable for you just walk away.
It might hurt you for several weeks or months but years later you will realize that you did the best for yourself.
How do you walk away from someone you love?
Walking away from someone you love isn’t an as easy thing as you might think. It takes courage and sacrifice.
As we all know leaving someone who still means a lot to you is always a hard thing.
You will have no choice but to walk away from someone who doesn’t make you the person you want to be.
This is how you walk away from someone you love;
1. You can walk away from someone by cutting off your communication.
One main thing that makes any relationship survive is communication. A relationship without will eventually collapse.
If you want to know more about why I’m saying that relationships will hardly survive without communication don’t forget to read this article from Her Beauty.
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So, if you want to attain the courage to walk away from someone the first thing you have to do is to cut off communication.
When you cut off all the communication you will have a chance to cut off the bond between the two of you.
You will be making the relationship weak and it will eventually collapse.
This is because if you want to walk away from someone yet you still keep in touch with him or her you will always find yourself drawn to him or her.
It will be so hard to leave it. So, cut off the communication gradually if it will be hard for you to cut it suddenly.
You can decide to block him or her everywhere so that he or she can’t reach you.
The moment you decide to cut off the communication then you would have attained the first step of walking away from that person you love.
2. You can walk away from someone you love by giving yourself reasons to let go of the relationship.
If you are thinking of leaving someone you love then it’s obvious that there are several reasons why you feel like doing that.
You can make it easy for yourself by writing down all the negative reasons that make you want to leave that relationship.
Read these reasons again repeatedly and keep them in your mind.
I’m telling you to do this because if you acknowledge the positive ones it will be hard for you to let go of him or her.
Holding the positive parts of him or her will make you want to stay with him or her.
So, clear your mind of all the positive parts of him or her and only focus on the negative parts.
When you manage to do this then you will have solid reasons to walk away from him or her even if you still love him or her.
3. You can walk away from someone you love by burying the feels you have for him or her.
Feelings are usually so strong and are the main reasons why we find ourselves so attached to people we love.
If you have feelings for someone it will be very hard for you to stop yourself from loving him or her.
No matter how hard you try to walk away from him or her you will always find yourself drawn to him or her.
So, if you want to walk away from someone you love then the best thing to do is bury the feelings you have for him or her.
Turn off what you feel for him or her off and pretend that you have never had any connection with him or her for once.
If you can give yourself this perspective that you feel nothing for him or her you will easily walk away from him or her, though later it might hurt you after you have left.
That way is better because you would have already done the hardest part. You can cope up with the main and eventually move on after a few weeks or months.
Here is an article that will help you to move on after you have walked away from him or her.
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4. You can walk away from someone you love by giving him or her a reason to hate you.
The moment you are trying hard to walk away from someone you love and he or she is acting in a lovely way every day around you, it will be very hard for you to walk away.
You will keep on procrastinating the time to walk away from him or her until you eventually lack the power of walking away from him or her.
So, to avoid that from happening just give him or her a reason to hate you. If you give him or her a reason to hate you then it will accelerate the process of walking away from him.
If you have been dating him or her for a while you obviously know what makes him or her angry.
Don the things that make him or her angry so that he finds a reason to push you away too.
You can go ahead and pretend to cheat on him or her with someone else. This will totally wreck him or her apart and you will have made him or her hate you.
The moment this happens then it will be very easy for you to walk away from him or her.
5. You can walk away from someone you love by going somewhere far.
If you find it hard to do all the things in have mentioned above then the appropriate thing to do is to go somewhere far where you know he or she can’t reach you.
The moment you go far for a long time and you cut off all the communication then he or she will notice that you have moved on with someone else.
He or she will eventually decide to move on too.
Did you know that long-distance can kill a relationship?
If coupes in long-distance relationships fail to meet for a long period of time then it will eventually fail.
So, if you can move so far away from him or her and you cut off all the communication then you will manage to walk away from him or her.
6. You can walk away from someone you love by occupying your life with someone else.
If you find it hard to walk away from someone you love then just meet someone else who matches your criteria or the one that you had a crush on, let him or her occupy your life.
This might seem a bit awkward but it can work if you really want to walk away from someone you love.
Once you have decided to make your life occupied by someone else whom you think can give you want in a relationship this will benefit you on two things;
The first thing is that you will easily forget him or her over a short period of time since you have someone who can help you with that.
The second thing is that you will make him or her give up on you easily because he or she will think that you have already moved on and you don’t want him or her in your life.
When he or she notices this he or she will eventually let you go thus making it easier for you to walk away from him or her.
When you do this make sure you don’t take it so deep with the person you choose to occupy your life with.
This is because you might have chosen him or her to run away from someone else.
This shouldn’t be the cause of entering a new relationship because it will eventually collapse.
Take it slow with him or her until you get to know him or her well enough to let him or her be your soul mate.
It’s not a good idea to rush into a relationship.
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7. You can walk away from someone you love by telling him or her “IT’S OVER”
If you find the relationship that you are in is not good for you then make a point of having a conversation with him or her.
Let him or her know why you feel that that relationship is not good for any of you.
Talk sense into him or her and if it’s someone who understands then he or she will help you to walk away from him or her even if he or she might find it a hard thing to do.
Make everything open and don’t leave anything unsaid.
You can tell him or her that you can’t take it anymore because of how the relationship is going.
So, don’t hide it from him or her if you want to walk away from the relationship.
Make it clear that it’s over between the two of you and walk away.
My final thought
If you are in a relationship that is doing no good in your life then it’s better to walk away from it.
No matter how much you love someone, if he or she treats you in a way that you don’t deserve just walk away from his or her life.
The moment you find that the relationship you are having with someone will never make any significant step then it’s better to let it go.
It’s not worth it to waste your time in a relationship that will keep you dragging you behind.
It’s not worth it to be with someone who never respects you the way you want even if you love him or her.
I know it’s not an easy thing to walk away from someone you love, but you will still have to do it if you want the best for your life.
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