What Makes A Man Want To Spend Time With You

Do you want to know what makes a man want to spend time with you? This is what I’m going to share with you in this article.

 

If your boyfriend is not spending time with you the way you would want and you are wondering what you can do to change that then this is the right article for you.

 

Several things can make a man want to spend time with you.

 

If you don’t have these things then you should think about implementing them.

 

No matter how amazing you are, if you don’t possess these things there is no way a man will want to spend time with you.

 

Without further ado, let me share with you what you need to know about this.

 

This is what will make a man want to spend time with you;

1. A man will want to spend time with you if you treat him nicely.

If you are wondering what makes a man want to spend time with you then this is the first thing you have to know.

 

A man will want to spend time with you if you treat him nicely.

 

There is no way a man will want to spend time with you if you treat him in a way that he hates.

 

Different men prefer to be treated differently.

 

The word “nice” might vary to different men. So, you should understand how your man wants to be treated if you want him to spend time with you.

 

When you treat a man the way he wants he will feel amazing to be around you.

 

The moment a man is happy with the way you treat him then he will always want to spend time with you because you make him happy.

 

And if you are the source of his happiness he will want to be around you always.

 

He will make effort and sacrifice his time for you.

 

But if you treat him like a piece of trash there is no way he will want to spend time with you.

 

2. If you are smart a man will want to spend time with you.

Men love smart women. They love women who can think and make their lives easier.

 

So, if you are smart then a man will always want to spend time with you because you make his life easier.

 

Your smartness in how you talk to him, how you handle yourself before him and how you help him to solve his problems is what will determine whether he will like to spend time with you on not.

 

If you make his life easier and he is not stressed whenever he hangs out with you then he will never get tired of spending his time with you.

 

But if you are not smart in any way and your boyfriend does everything for you when he is around you then there is no way he will want to spend time with you.

 

No matter how much he loves you, if he has to handle everything for you because you can’t think smart then at one point he will be exhausted.

 

And when he becomes exhausted to help you out on everything he will never enjoy spending time with you.

 

When this happens to be the case then he will never want to spend time with you.

 

So, if you are smart and you make his life easier when he is around you he will always want to spend his time with you.

 

3. The way you talk to him has a great influence on the time he may want to spend with you.

The way you talk to a man determines whether he will want to spend time with you or not.

 

If you nicely talk to him and he feels so happy with the conversations you make day by day he will always want to spend time with you.

 

The first thing you have to know are the kinds of words you choose to say when he is around you.

 

If you choose words that make him feel good when he is around you then he will always enjoy your company.

 

But if you abuse him and you use words that make him feel bad about himself then there is no way he will enjoy spending time with you.

 

And when this is the case he will not want to spend time with you.

 

The other thing is the kind of conversations you make with him.

 

If the conversations you make with him are engaging and you can talk for hours and find yourselves lost in it then he will always want to spend time with you.

 

You should choose a conversation style that he is comfortable with. Observe him and identify which kind of way he likes to talk to you and implement it.

 

If he loves to talk then don’t cut him short, don’t jump to conclusions when he is trying to make a point and always encourage him to talk.

 

In this way, he will feel so amazing talking to you. And this is what will make him want to spend time with you.

 

4. A man will want to spend time with you if you have so much in common.

This is something else that has a great influence on the time a man would want to spend time with you.

 

When you have so much in common with your boyfriend he will always want to spend time with you because you like similar things.

 

This will enable him to connect to you very deeply.

 

The moment you have so much in common a man will enjoy being around you because you do things that interest him.

 

He doesn’t feel bored when he is around you and this is what will keep pulling him closer to you.

 

If you have nothing in common and whenever he is around you, you get so deep in things you like and he just sits there looking at you.

 

He will be bored because he isn’t interested in what you do.

 

And this will make it hard for him to want to spend time with you.

 

So, when you don’t have anything in common with your man the moment he is hanging out with you make sure you switch to something that you will both enjoy.

 

In this way, you will make him happy when he is around you and he will always want to spend time with you because you are considerate.

 

5. A man will spend time with you if he cares and loves you.

A man will want to spend time with you if he cares about you.

 

This has to do with how he feels about you.

 

If he has feelings for you then he cares about you. If he doesn’t care about you he will never sacrifice his time for you.

 

So, your relationship bond with the man matters so much when it comes to this.

 

A man will never spend time with you if he doesn’t feel you. It will be impossible for a man to feel connected and be interested to spend time with you if he doesn’t feel anything for you.

 

The other part is love. If he doesn’t love you he will never want to spend time with you.

 

If you did something to him and it changed how he feels about you then there is no way he will be happy spending his time with you.

 

Love is what connects couples and when it no longer exists then the relationship is going to end.

 

So, for a man to spend time with you he has to care about you and love you.

 

And that is why when you are not on good terms with a man he will not want to be around you.

 

6. A man will want to spend time with you if you are always supportive.

This is another thing that will make a man want to spend time with you.

 

If you are always supportive then he will enjoy spending time with you and he will always be around you.

 

For you to be supportive doesn’t mean that you all have to do the same things.

 

You can be doing different things but at the same time, you support him in the things he does.

 

In my case, I’m a blogger and my girlfriend is mostly in business issues because she is pursuing things to do with procurement.

 

Anyway, blogging is what I like to do but, I’m an engineer.

 

You can see the difference, right? But I do talk about my blogging issues with her and she listens to me and asks me questions though she is not interested in blogging.

 

She is doing that because she wants to support me, and this motivates me so much.

 

I always want to be next to her because she is supportive. She is someone I can talk to when I have an idea of an article that I want to write though we are in a different space.

 

So, when you support your boyfriend in what he does then he will always want to spend time with you.

 

As we all know our lives are mostly involved with what we do in our day to day lives.

 

If you are supportive, then at your laps is where your man will want to lay and talk to you about his work progress.

 

But if you aren’t supportive then there is no way he will want to spend time with you.

 

He will prefer to hang out with people who he can talk to about his work.

 

7. A man will want to spend time with you if he is comfortable around you.

This is something else that will make a man want to spend time with you.

 

If your boyfriend is not comfortable around you there is no way he will enjoy spending time with you.

 

And if he doesn’t enjoy spending time with you there is no way he will want to be around you.

 

I won’t talk much about this issue in this section because there is an article I wrote about it.

 

You might like this: 7 Things That Makes A Man Feel Comfortable With A Woman

 

So, if you want your man to want to spend time with you then you have to make sure that he feels comfortable when he is around you.

 

There are several things you can do to make your man comfortable, make sure you check the article above to know this.

 

You can make your man comfortable by being an understanding woman, listening to him attentively when he talks to you, not being pushy about anything, not being judgemental and so many other things.

 

You can find the rest in the article I linked above.

 

When a man feels comfortable around you he will want to spend more time with you.

 

8. A man will want to spend time with you if he feels wanted.

When a man feels wanted by a woman he will always want to spend time with her.

 

So, the way you make your man feel when he is around you matters a lot when it comes to this.

 

If you make him feel wanted and special then he will always want to spend time with you.

 

Picture out these instances,

 

Your boyfriend wants to come over to your house but you always tell him that you are busy with something.

 

He wants to hang out with you but you give him thousands of excuses.

 

If it goes this way for a while he will eventually give up on asking you out.

 

He will feel you don’t want him around. And this will eventually make him silent.

 

He will never plan any date unless you do it.

 

It’s not because he doesn’t want to spend time with you but it’s because you don’t give him the chance to and this makes him feel unwanted.

 

Let us say you handle your issue in this way, your boyfriend wants to come over to your house, you are indeed busy, you tell him to come over but you notify him that you will be doing something else.

 

He will come over but he will be aware that you will be handling some errands.

 

This will make him want to help you as he hangs out with you.

 

He will end up feeling that he is wanted around and this will make him always want to spend time with you.

 

9. A man will want to spend time with you if he feels respected.

Respect is something that is underrated most of the time in relationships.

 

People fail to understand that without this no relationship will thrive.

 

It’s just like trust, without it nothing will work in a relationship.

 

A man will want to spend time with you if he feels respected.

 

Respect can branch in so many aspects.

 

The way you handle yourself before him, the way you respond when he calls you, the rate at which you respond to his request and so many other things.

 

This is all about recognizing things that your boyfriend expects from you and making sure that you achieve them when he is around you without him forcing you to do them.

 

If you know what your boyfriend expects from you then make sure you do it to the fullest.

 

Listen to him attentively when he talks to you and when you don’t like something don’t yell at him.

 

Instead, address him politely and in this way, he will feel so respected and this will always make him want to spend time with you.

 

10. A man will want to spend time with you if he wants to.

For a man to spend his time with you it has to be his decision.

 

It’s the same way you feel when you want to do something. You do something because you feel it’s necessary doing it.

 

This is the same way with a man.

 

If he finds he must spend his time with you then he will do it so willingly.

 

But if he doesn’t feel like he must spend his time with you then he will never do it.

 

Lastly…

 

The way you treat your man and how you connect to him is what will determine if he will want to spend time with you or not.

 

The moment you treat him nicely and he is always happy being around you then he will always want to spend time with you.

 

This is the main takeaway from this article.

 

But if you don’t treat him the way he wants and he is not happy around you there is no way he will want to spend time with you.

 

Also, the way he feels about you is another important factor you should understand.

 

If he feels connected to you, he loves you and cares about you he will always want to spend time with you.

 

He will recognize that it’s essential for him to check on you because you are someone important.

 

Thanks for reading, if you have any questions, leave your comment. See you in my next article.

 

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