If you want to make a girl comfortable with you I have what you need to know about this. You have to know that if a girl is uncomfortable with you nothing can happen.
Your relationship with her will be a mess, if she is a girl you are trying to win things will never work out.
A girl will get closer to you and even open up to you if she is comfortable with you.
If you want her to talk to you and express what she feels for you then she has to be comfortable with you.
There are so many things that you can achieve by making a girl comfortable with you.
Without wasting time let me get into this topic.
What to do if a girl is uncomfortable with you;
1. Find out what makes her uncomfortable with you.
This is the first thing you will have to do if a girl is uncomfortable with you.
You will have to find out what makes this girl uncomfortable around you if you want to make her comfortable with you.
There is no way you will come up with a solution to this issue if you won’t find these reasons.
The cause of her being uncomfortable with you will make you have an idea of where you should start fixing this issue.
You can find out why she is uncomfortable with you by observing several things within yourself when she is around you.
Think of what you always do or talk about when she is with you.
If you always talk about one thing every time she is around you and you then you will have it easy.
The only thing you will have to observe are the words you say to her.
When you will be able to find out which words make her uncomfortable then you will be able to fix this issue.
Also, if you always do something whenever she is around you then there is a possibility what you do is what makes her uncomfortable.
Don’t be afraid to ask her what makes her uncomfortable when she is around you.
The reasons she might give will help with an idea of how you can solve this problem.
2. Try to fix anything that makes her uncomfortable with you.
Once you find out what makes her uncomfortable around you then you should fix this issue.
If you find out what makes her uncomfortable around you then try your best to adjust those things.
This should start from your words to your actions when she is around you.
If you are always doing something that she hates when she is around you then you should start changing that.
Stop doing what she hates when she is around you and this will eventually make her comfortable around you.
Also, if you always talk about any issue that she doesn’t like when she is around you then you should stop.
And talk about the things she likes when she is around you if you want to make her comfortable with you.
If at any point she told you what makes her uncomfortable around you then your main focus should be on changing what she told you because that is the solution to this problem.
3. Don’t judge what she does and say around you.
This is one of the things that make a girl uncomfortable with you.
If you know that you have the habit of judging what she says and does when she is around you then this is one of the things you should stop.
It can be that you don’t even know if you are doing this.
The only way to avoid this is by jumping to conclusions when she says or she does anything around you.
If she is talking about anything even if you have an idea of it, don’t comment on anything unless she wants you to.
Listen to her attentively and encourage her to keep talking.
On the other hand, if she did something even if it’s a bad thing and it annoys you don’t start judging her without hearing what she has to tell you about it.
This is the part where most guys fail.
Did you know that if you are judgmental your girlfriend will never be comfortable around you?
She will not even open up to you if you have this kind of character.
So, stop judging anything from her without hearing the full story from her.
Even after hearing anything she says don’t start pointing every blame on her.
This will never make her comfortable around you.
When she does anything wrong don’t insert your reason on why she did it even if you think your theory is right.
4. Don’t force her to talk about things she doesn’t want to.
This is one of the things guys do and it makes girls uncomfortable.
Don’t force her to talk about things she doesn’t want to. If she doesn’t want to tell you something don’t push her to do so.
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When your girlfriend doesn’t want to talk about anything with you then you should know that something is holding her back.
It can be her thoughts or something she is trying to protect.
Also, it can be that she thinks it’s irrelevant for you to know and that is why she doesn’t want to talk about it.
There is always a reason when a girl doesn’t want to talk about something.
When you force her to talk about it is when you will be making her uncomfortable.
She will not be at ease when she is around you.
And this will affect how she feels about you. She will look at you as her enemy because you are forcing her to reveal what her heart doesn’t want to.
When this happens, that girl will never be comfortable with you anymore.
She will even be afraid to talk to you because she knows you will always force her into talking about things she doesn’t want to.
Even if she is just a friend to you, don’t force her to talk about anything you feel like she doesn’t want to reveal.
Don’t push her to tell you how she feels about you if she is not ready to do it.
And by this way, you will make her comfortable around you.
5. Avoid flirting with her too much if she isn’t into it.
If this is a girl you are hitting on then this is something you should observe.
When you flirt with a girl too much and she isn’t into it then know that you are making her uncomfortable.
This will make her afraid even to sit next to you.
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When you flirt too much with her and it’s something that she hates then know that she will be uncomfortable with you.
You should avoid doing this if you want her to be comfortable around you.
In short, don’t do anything she doesn’t want you to do when she is around you and you will make her feel comfortable with you.
Even if she is your girlfriend, you should know when it’s the right time for you to flirt with her.
Don’t think that she will be okay with you to flirt with her anytime you feel like it.
You have to understand that there are days she will not be in the mood to flirt with you.
She will just want to be left alone.
So, when you want to flirt with her you should first analyse her mood before you do so.
If you notice that she is not in her usual vibe then don’t try to do anything that will annoy her.
The moment you know how to balance this then she will always be comfortable with you.
She will feel free to be around you because she knows that you will be able to understand any situation she will be in.
And this is what will make her more comfortable around you.
6. Make her feel safe and secure around you.
This is something else you should do if you want to make her comfortable around you.
Make her feel safe and secure when she is around you.
How can you do this?
You are the man and you should do everything you can to protect her.
Make her feel that she can rely on you whenever anything goes wrong when she is with you.
You will be able to do this when you start the habit of being around her whenever she needs your help.
When she is sick you have to be there for her.
Make sure that you avail yourself whenever she needs anything from you if you want to make everything between the two of you okay.
The moment a woman feels safes and secure whenever she is with you then she will always feel comfortable with you.
She will be at ease because she knows nothing will happen to her. After all, you will always have her back.
This will strengthen your relationship with her and she will always prefer to be with you.
Show her that you got her back in every situation and you will make her comfortable around you.
7. Open up to her about anything you think is important for her to know.
If you have the habit of closing up to her, how do you expect her to open up to you?
This is something you should do if you want your girlfriend to be comfortable around you.
When you are around her and she knows that you have an issue that is bothering you but you keep it to yourself this is something that will affect her.
This will make her mind race trying to figure out what is wrong with you.
And this is not a good thing at all. This will make her uncomfortable when she is with you.
She might think of so many negative things that will make her unhappy when she is around you.
When a girl is unhappy around you there is no way she will be comfortable with you.
Women want to be around men who make them feel calm and at ease.
They want to be with men who will take care of their emotions and feel so free and calm when they are around them.
This is what makes them comfortable and happy. But if you can’t achieve this then know that a woman will never be comfortable around you.
Also, when you make the habit of opening up to her this will make her feel that you don’t keep anything from her and it will suggest that the way feels about her hasn’t changed.
This will make her feel free to open up to you.
And when a girl opens up to you about anything then know that she is comfortable around you.
8. Don’t rush anything.
If you are the kind of guy who likes rushing things then know that ladies don’t like this.
The moment you move everything fast you will make them feel out of control.
One thing you should know is that girls like to be in control. They like to follow along with how everything progresses.
And that is why a guy needs to start with foreplay if he wants the girl to enjoy the game.
This is just an example.
When you rush things a girl will feel she is out of breath and she will want to pull herself away from that pressure.
So, don’t rush anything if you want a girl to be comfortable around you.
9. Follow her lead.
Follow her lead but don’t allow her to control you.
This is something you should do if you want her to be comfortable with you.
If she wants you to do things that she likes and you know there is nothing wrong with you doing them then there is no need to oppose her.
Do the things she likes and this will always make her comfortable.
If you know that she likes you to handle her in a certain way then you should do so because it’s from that way that she gets her comfort.
Follow her lead and everything will be fine between the two of you.
You don’t always have to oppose everything she wants because you think you are the man.
Give her the freedom to feel like she is in control yet you are the one riding everything.
You must make her comfortable around you if you want to have an amazing relationship with her.
When a girl feels comfortable with you it will be easier for her to love you more and win her heart.
She will love you so much because she will feel you care so much about her interest.
This will make her open up to you easily and things will flow smoothly in your relationship.
The opposite of this is that she will distance herself from you, she will not love you, she will not open up to you and the relationship might end.
She will want to be around someone who makes her feel at ease and that person will not be you.
So, make a point of making her comfortable if you want her to be around you and happy.
Communicate with her and know what she wants you to do to make her feel at ease when she is around you.
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