What To Do If He Doesn’t Respect You

If your boyfriend doesn’t respect you then that relationship is not going to work anymore. A relationship without respect is just like a relationship without trust, will it work?

 

If you know that a relationship without trust will not work then know that a relationship without respect will not work too.

 

Respect covers almost everything in that relationship. The way your partner treats you, the way he talks to you, the way he introduces you to his friends or family, the decisions he makes in that relationship, and how he approaches solving different conflicts in that relationship are based on respect.

 

Without respect, a relationship will turn toxic.

 

So, if your boyfriend doesn’t respect you this is what you should do before it’s too late.

 

What to do if your boyfriend doesn’t respect you;

1. Admit that your boyfriend is disrespecting you.

If you want to work out this issue between you and your boyfriend then you should first admit the situation that you are in.

 

Admit that your boyfriend is disrespecting you and you would like to change the situation.

 

You should not put any excuse before you or convince yourself that your boyfriend is disrespecting you because there is something wrong with him.

 

Don’t include his work stress or family issue in this matter. Just tell yourself that your boyfriend is disrespecting you because that is who is his.

 

That is his character and you have to find a way to change him, if he won’t change then you will have to walk away.

 

When you admit that your boyfriend is disrespecting you because it’s something he is used to and it’s his character this is when you will have come up with a way to handle this issue.

 

If you won’t accept that your boyfriend is disrespecting you then you will not be able to solve this issue and you will continue to be unhappy in that relationship.

 

2. Find out why he disrespects you.

This is something else you have to do if your boyfriend is disrespecting you.

 

Find out why your boyfriend is not respecting.

 

Are you doing anything wrong that makes your boyfriend treat you the way he is treating you?

 

Is he usually drunk when he disrespects you? Is it peer pressure from his friends that make him disrespect you? Was he like that when you first met him?

 

These are some of the questions you should ask yourself and find the answers to them if you want to know why your boyfriend is not respecting you.

 

If your boyfriend always disrespects you when he is drunk then you will know that that is the cause.

 

When you know that your boyfriend is always disrespecting you when he is drunk then you will have an idea of where to start correcting this issue.

 

Also, check on the kind of friends he is interacting with. Are they the ones who encourage him to disrespect you?

 

Your boyfriend may be a good person but the kinds of friends he interacts with can be the cause of him treating you the way he does.

 

Think of anything that will help you to find out why he is disrespecting you.

 

This is because from these reasons is where you will find the perfect solution to this problem.

 

Also, you can go ahead and ask him how he feels about you. Ask him what he would like you to change.

 

Maybe from these questions, you might get a rough idea why he treats you with disrespect.

 

If you end up finding that your boyfriend is the way he is because it’s one of his characters then you will have nothing to do but to cut him off.

 

3. Fix any misunderstanding between the two of you.

If you find that the main reason why your boyfriend is disrespecting you is because of a misunderstanding between the two of you then this is what you should do.

 

Sometimes the negative tension that is in between you and your boyfriend may be the reason why he treats you with disrespect.

 

When your boyfriend is angry with you for doing a certain thing this will make him treat you badly.

 

This is because you are not on good terms. Though this is not a reason for him to disrespect you, it can be that cause.

 

So, if you know that you had an argument that made him start treating you with disrespect then you should resolve the conflict between the two of you.

 

If you did something that made him disappointed in you, apologize to him and make it up to him if you want this to change.

 

There is no way your boyfriend will treat you right if there is bad energy between the two of you.

 

4. Tell him how you feel about how he treats you.

If your boyfriend doesn’t respect you then don’t be afraid to let him know how you feel about it.

 

Let him know how you feel about how he treats you.

 

Communication is very important in solving several issues in a relationship.

 

If you will not talk to him about it he will never know if what he is doing is right or wrong.

 

It can be that he used to treat ladies like that and he feels it’s the right way.

 

So, let him know how you feel about how he treats you.

 

This is the part where you will know how he feels for you.

 

When you tell him that you are not happy with how he treats you and he brings up a fight about it then you should know that he doesn’t care or loves you at all.

 

A guy who loves and cares about you will recognize when he is doing something that hurts you.

 

He will change immediately for you to keep him. But if he doesn’t care about losing you he will never care about what you will tell him.

 

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He will ask you to suck it up and move on with your life.

 

When you tell him how you feel about how he treats you and he doesn’t seem to care about you then distance yourself from him.

 

5. Distance yourself from him.

If your boyfriend doesn’t respect you then you should distance yourself from him.

 

This is especially after you have talked to him about his behavior and he doesn’t seem to change.

 

When you distance yourself from him this will give you time to be away from him.

 

You will escape the harsh treatment from him and this will give him time to think of what he wants from you.

 

If he still loves you then the distance between the two of you will make him change.

 

He will know that you distanced yourself because he doesn’t respect you. This will make him change himself to be fit for you.

 

And when he is sure that he is in good shape then he will search for you to fix your issues.

 

But if he no longer loves you then he will never care to change himself for you.

 

And he will never bother searching for you or bring you closer after you have distanced yourself from him.

 

During the period that you have distanced yourself from him don’t be in touch with him.

 

Cut the communication off to make him miss you.

 

This might make him change him.

 

6. Give him time to change.

You should understand that change is not an event. Change is a process.

 

Someone cannot change overnight. You will have to be patient about this.

 

Don’t break up with him the moment you realize that he doesn’t respect you.

 

Try your best to change him and give him time to change.

 

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If he truly loves you and he wants you to be happy with him then he will implement the necessary changes on himself.

 

7. Leave him if he doesn’t change.

If your boyfriend doesn’t change you will have to let him go.

 

Cut him off if he continues to disrespect you. There is no need to be with someone who keeps making your life difficult.

 

You entered that relationship in search of happiness, don’t let it be your worst nightmare.

 

If your boyfriend doesn’t respect you this is clearly that he doesn’t love you and he doesn’t care about you.

 

He is taking you for granted and you should not hesitate to walk away from him.

 

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If your boyfriend doesn’t respect you or your feelings then let him go. Continuing to stay with him will cause more misery to you. You will never be happy in that relationship.

 

There is no need to be with someone who doesn’t give see your worth.

 

Lastly…

 

When your boyfriend doesn’t respect you try your best to change him before you decide to walk away from him.

 

Give him a chance to change himself before you cut him off.

 

If he cares about you and he still needs you in his life then he will do everything he can to change how he treats you.

 

But if he doesn’t love you then he will never care to change how he handles you.

 

He will keep treating you like a piece of trash.

 

Don’t force yourself to be with him yet he disrespects you simply because you have been through a lot with him.

 

Walk away from him and find someone else who will love you and respect you for who you are.

 

Thanks for reading, if you have any questions leave your comment. See you in my next article.

 

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