What To Do If Your Girlfriend Is Too Friendly With Guys

Is your girlfriend too friendly with other guys? Are you worried that she is cheating on you with these guys?

 

Don’t worry, in this article, I will share with you what to do about this situation.

 

If your girlfriend is too friendly with other guys to an extent it makes you suspect her then you have the right to be worried about this.

 

You have the right to be jealous, but before you tell her anything or do anything that will mess up your relationship, I will share with you what you can do about this situation.

 

If you go the wrong way about this your might end up ruing your relationship.

 

What to do when your girlfriend is too friendly with other guys;

1. Keep calm and don’t do anything hasty.

If your girlfriend is too friendly with other guys the first thing you should do is to be calm.

 

I know this situation can be so tempting and you might end up doing something you will regret later.

 

So, take control of your temper and don’t do anything hasty.

 

You have the right to be jealous when you find your girlfriend is too friendly with other guys.

 

I would get mad about it too.

 

Don’t go hard on your girlfriend and start asking her to stop talking to them because she is too friendly with them.

 

Try to understand why your girlfriend is too friendly with these guys.

 

It can be that she is too friendly with these guys because they give her the attention that you don’t.

 

Have you asked yourself that?

 

If you are too busy for her and you no longer give her the attention she wants what do you expect her to do.

 

So, these are some of the things you should ask yourself before you go hard on her and start asking her to stop talking to these guys or asking her to block them.

 

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And you will be able to do this by keeping aside your personal feelings and dealing with this issue maturely.

 

2. Analyse her relationship with these guys.

If your girlfriend is too friendly with other guys to an extent you think she is cheating on you with them then you have to analyse her relationship with these guys.

 

Anyway, let me make one thing clear to you. If she was cheating on you wouldn’t have noticed that.

 

She would have distanced herself from these guys.

 

When a girl does something that she knows it’s against her relationship she will be very secretive about it.

 

You might like this: why your girlfriend is keeping secrets from you.

 

So, take it out of your mind that she is cheating on you with these guys unless you come across a major red flag.

 

But if it’s something normal, they talk and laugh and that is all, this shouldn’t make you conclude that she is cheating on you with these guys.

 

The best thing you can do is to analyse this relationship she has with these guys.

 

You can do this by observing how she behaves with them, the way she acts when you look at her as she interacts with them and asking her several questions about these guys.

 

The way she will act when she is around these guys you will just give you a clear picture of whether she is cheating on you with them or not.

 

If she is doing something with these guys then she will tense when she sees you the moment she is around them.

 

Her body language will tell you that she is hiding something from you and you will eventually know if she is cheating on you.

 

Take your time to analyse her relationship with these guys before you sit down and talk to her about it.

 

Also, ask her questions about these guys. If you know your girlfriend better then you will know if she is telling you the truth or she is hiding something from you.

 

3. Talk to her about it.

The next thing you should do is to talk to her about this.

 

Tell her how you feel about her being so friendly with these guys. There is nothing wrong with your girlfriend knowing that you are jealous about this issue.

 

If it’s something that hurts you and you are not completely comfortable with it then you should talk to her about it.

 

Don’t pretend that you are okay with what she is doing yet it’s something that hurts you terribly.

 

It can be that she thinks you are okay with her being too friendly with these guys and that is why she does it.

 

Also, when you talk to her about it you will be able to know why she does it.

 

If there is something wrong between the two of you it will arise from this conversation.

 

So, don’t keep quiet about this if it’s something that bothers you.

 

When you tell her about it she will eventually understand that what she is doing is something that makes you uncomfortable and hurts your feelings and she will stop doing it if she cares about you.

 

4. Ask her to stop being so close to them.

This is something else you can ask her to do but you don’t have to be mean about it.

 

The way you address your girlfriend is what will either make her respect you or not.

 

If you are that guy who keeps shouting at her whenever she does something that you hate then know that she will never respect you.

 

She will hate you but she will never tell you about it. The way she will handle you will also change.

 

And this will affect your relationship with her negatively.

 

So, the way you communicate with your girlfriend whenever there is anything wrong in your relationship will affect how she will react to what you will tell her to do.

 

Are you supposed to ask her to stop talking to them completely even if they are friends she cares about?

 

Are you supposed to ask her to distance herself from them and not to say hi even if she comes across them?

 

No! If you do any of these things you will not be doing a good thing. You will be controlling her.

 

And you know where a relationship will go when you start controlling her.

 

The only thing you can ask her is to stop being so close to them and instead she should focus all her attention and energy on you.

 

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If she cares about you then she will not find it a big deal.

 

5. If she persists, distance yourself from her.

If you have asked her not to be so close to these guys and she keeps doing it then the only thing you can do is to distance yourself from her.

 

When you distance yourself from her intentionally this might make her realize how bad what she does hurts you.

 

Distance sometimes can be used to cure a relationship when and at the same time, the same distance can be used to destroy a relationship.

 

So, it depends on how you will use this distance.

 

The moment you distance yourself from her because she is too friendly with other guys then this will make her start paying more attention to you.

 

If she cares so much about you and the relationship then she will approach you and want to work things with you.

 

But if she doesn’t care about you and she never valued you then she will never bother reaching out to you to fix this issue.

 

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When this happens then know that your girlfriend doesn’t love you at all and she is probably cheating on you with these guys.

 

If it takes more than a week and she hasn’t reached out to you then you should forget about her.

 

This clearly shows she is taking you for granted.

 

Should I leave my girlfriend for being too friendly?

You should not leave your girlfriend for being too friendly with other guys, instead, you should talk to her about it. Let her know that it makes you uncomfortable and she should stop being too close with these guys. You will have to leave her if she doesn’t want to stop being too friendly with them.

 

If your girlfriend doesn’t want to stop being too friendly with these guys even after you have told her how you feel about it then you will have no alternative but to leave her.

 

This clearly shows that something is going on between her and these guys.

 

And that is why she doesn’t want to stop being so close to them.

 

Lastly…

 

When your girlfriend is too friendly with other guys you should let her know that it is something that makes you uncomfortable.

 

You should not keep quiet about it if it’s something that hurts you. Let her know how you feel about it.

 

If she cares about your feelings then she will consider changing how she interacts with these guys.

 

She will do things that will favour your feelings.

 

But if she doesn’t care about you she will never think of changing how she interacts with these guys.

 

And she will keep on being too close to them.

 

Also, if she makes a big deal out of this then know that something is going on between her and these guys.

 

And you should walk away from her because this shows that she is taking you for granted.

 

You might like this: How To Walk Away When Someone Takes You For Granted

 

Thanks for reading, if you have any questions leave your comment. See you next time in my other article.

 

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