When a guy cries in front of you and you don’t know what to do then this is the right article for you. Guys can cry also, they are humans too. They can feel the pain that girls do also.
We have men who are emotionally, and these are the easy ones to cry when anything abruptly changes their emotions.
By the way, I have an article that I wrote about this issue.
The above article will give you a pretty good insight into these emotional guys.
So, before I share with you what to do when a guy cries in front of you this is something you should know.
What Does It Mean When A Guy Cries In Front Of You?
Let me be honest with you, not all guys will be able to cry in front of you.
Some guys will try hard to hide their emotions from you so that you don’t see them crying.
This is because most guys believe that crying in front of a girl is awkward, revealing their weaknesses and it makes them look disposable since they know that girls hate guys who cry.
Some guys even believe that men who cry in front of girls, portray girlish behaviour.
When a guy cries in front of you it means that he is totally comfortable showing his vulnerability, because he is in love with you. He believes that you can’t use his weaknesses against him. Also, this shows that his emotions are distorted.
In most cases, when a guy cries in front of you, it’s either he is hurt or he is joyous.
What Does It Mean When Your Boyfriend Cries In Front Of You?
When your boyfriend cries in front of you it means he is so much in love with you, depending on the situation you are in he can be hurt, he is comfortable around you and it can be that he wants you to comfort him.
When A Man Cries In Front Of A Woman.
When it reaches a point a man cries in front of a woman, know that he is hurt. This is because it’s very hard for men to cry in front of women since most of them think it will show their weaknesses, also they will be considered weak.
Why Would A Guy Cry In Front Of You?
A guy would cry in front of you when he is hurt, he is too emotionally and he can’t hold these feelings, he is comfortable around you and he doesn’t care about showing his weaknesses to you and also when you have done something to hurt him.
This is what to do when a guy cries in front of you;
1. Don’t ask him questions as he cries.
This is something you shouldn’t do when a guy is crying in front of you.
In fact, it will be hard for him to talk as he cries.
Asking questions as he is crying will make him uncomfortable and this might even cause more pain to him if he is hurt. The only thing you can do is to let him cry so that she can relieve himself of anything that he is feeling.
2. Make him comfortable and show empathy.
This is something else you can do if a guy is crying in front of you.
If he is crying in front of you then try to be supportive to him.
Make him comfortable if he is crying.
You have to know when a guy is crying the only thing that controls him is his emotions.
It will be hard for him to make himself comfortable.
If he is crying because he is sad then he might even end up hurting himself by knocking on the wall.
So, make him comfortable by taking him on a sofa and make him comfortable by patting his back.
Show some empathy.
Show him that you care about his situation and treat him well when he is in such a state.
Don’t start yelling at him simply because he is crying. You won’t be doing good.
If it’s possible let him lay his head on your thighs and touch his hair to make him calm down.
These are some of the things that very few girls do, so when you do this to your guy then he will always feel the need to take care of you more than you do to him.
3. Hug him tight and don’t let him go.
This is something else you can do when a guy cries in front of you.
You should understand that when a guy cries in front of you his emotions are unstable.
So, you have to make him calm down and make him be in a good condition.
Hugs have a very impact on someone’s emotions.
I know you have probably seen in movies when people are crying they do hug each other.
Hug him tight and don’t let him go.
Tight hugs are good at calming a person down.
I’m writing this from my own experience.
I remember there was a day I was just stressed.
There were issues at home and as a firstborn I had to find a solution but I was never able to do that.
I felt that I failed my family. At the moment I was far from home (Mombasa). I was in Eldoret (Uasin Gishu County).
I went to see my friend. She called me because she had issues that we had to discuss with her and just hang out with her.
As I entered her room as she opened the door for me and without saying a word she asked me, “Hey! Are you okay?”
I delayed my response, she just knew I was not fine and my eyes were watery.
She hugged me tightly for about a minute and I really felt calm. It eliminated the emotions that were troubling me. You have to know that she was not my girlfriend, she was just a friend.
So hugs help a big deal when a guy crying or about to cry.
4. Kiss him if he is your boyfriend.
If he is crying this is another way to calm him down.
Do this if he is your boyfriend.
You won’t kiss someone who isn’t your boyfriend.
It’s all about making him comfortable and eliminating the emotions that make him cry.
So, get on his lips and start kissing him this will obviously calm him down.
Try this and you will thank me later.
5. Tell him everything will be okay.
The kind of words you say when a guy cries in front of you also do matter a lot.
You have to speak words that will calm him down and make him more comfortable.
Don’t speak negative words as he is crying, this will make things even worse. No matter your status just keep your negative words in your pocket for a while.
Encourage him that everything will be okay as you keep making him comfortable.
Keep giving him emotional support. He needs it.
So, do your best and speak words that will help him to calm down instead of adding pain to him.
If a guy is crying in front of you then try to make him comfortable. Show him that you care about him.
Show him that you value him and you understand what he is feeling by showing empathy.
Hug him tight and pat him on his back as you make him calm down.
When you do such kinds of things, then you are making him realize that you will always be there for him no matter his situation.
This is very important as it strengthens your connection if you are dating.
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