When A Guy Starts Talking Dirty To You: Do This

When a guy starts talking dirty to you it means he wants more than a friendship with you, though there is more to it.

 

We all know that the guy who should be talking dirty with you is your partner only.

 

Your partner and you share a romantic relationship so there is nothing wrong when you two talk dirty.

 

When a guy starts talking dirty to you it means that he is used to you and he feels free sharing anything with you, he wants an intimate relationship with you, he wants to lure you into his trap and he finds you a cheap chick and a desperate one.

 

So, let me elaborate on the points that I have shared in the above paragraph.

 

When you are so friendly to a guy and you talk with him about a lot of things and he has a crush on you he will at one point start talking dirty to you.

 

The fact that you made it easier for him since you allow him to tell you anything he will use that to his advantage.

 

The truth is that if he was never used to you, and you never talk to him about anything else but your profession and the things that you usually do together.

 

Then he will never find it easier to start sexting you yet you aren’t dating.

 

He will always stay at his limits and he will respect you.

 

If a guy is in love with you and he wants an intimate relationship with you then he will start talking dirty to you. He will do this so that you realize that he wants more than a friendship with you.

 

He knows that if he keeps talking to you about the obvious things you will never know his full intentions with you.

 

Talking dirty to you is what will make you realize that he wants an intimate relationship.

 

Not all guys who will be talking dirty to you will want a serious intimate relationship.

 

Some guys will talk dirty to you when they find you attractive and all they can think of is getting you in their beds.

 

These are the guys that are mostly driven by lust and all they want is a one-night stand.

 

So, if a guy is extremely into you because of how amazing you look then he will start talking dirty to you so that he gets you in the mood and also make you realize that he wants more than just a friendship with you.

 

If you are looking for a relationship then these are the types of guys who I will advise you to avoid at all costs.

 

Their intentions are not to have a long-lasting relationship with you but to fulfill their sexual desires.

 

Other guys will start talking dirty to you when they want to have for you for the time being. This is when they have seen an opportunity and they want to utilize it and go away.

 

For instance, if you met at a party and a guy starts talking dirty to you then know that his intention is to get you into his trap and after that he will walk away after getting what he wanted from you.

 

Other guys will talk dirty to you just because they find you to be cheap and desperate.

 

When a guy finds you to be easy go (cheap) and so desperate then he will start talking dirty to you since he knows that you can’t deny him a chance when he wants to hit it.

 

If he sees you are the type of chick who hangs out with every guy then he will think of you as being desperate and cheap and that is why he also wants to get you on his side.

 

What to do when a guy starts talking dirty to you.

If a guy is talking dirty to you and you don’t like it then this is what you should do.

1. Tell him to stop talking dirty to you.

If a guy is talking dirty to you and you hate it then be honest with him.

 

You don’t have to keep quiet yet it’s something that it’s bothering you.

 

It doesn’t matter how he will feel about it, as long as you aren’t in a relationship he should maintain his limits.

 

He is your friend so let him remain to be one.

 

When you notice his conversations are changing and you obviously know that he will start talking dirty to you then tell him to stop.

 

You can tell him to change the topic and talk about something else.

 

If he doesn’t pay heed then just stop the conversation yourself. You have the power to do that.

 

2. Ignore him and his texts and calls.

If a guy is talking dirty to you then there is no need to pick up his calls and reply to his texts.

 

Ignore his texts and calls.

 

The moment he comes to you in person and he starts talking dirty again then you can also ignore him.

 

Put your earphones with loud music in your ears and ignore whatever he is talking about.

 

You can also decide to walk away from where he followed you.

 

You don’t have to sit at the same table. You can choose to sit somewhere else.

 

When he notices that you keep on ignoring him whenever he starts talking dirty to you then he will stop doing so.

 

3. Block him if he continues dirtying dirty to you.

This is something else you should do.

 

Block him so that he can’t reach you anymore.

 

Do this when he continues sending you dirty texts or calling you and talking about the same things.

 

You don’t have to think so much about this.

 

If you have been ignoring his texts and calls but he still persists in doing so then you will have no alternative but to block him.

 

Cut all the communication between the two of you.

 

There is no need to keep communicating with someone who doesn’t respect your boundaries.

 

You might like this: Is Blocking Someone Immature?

 

4. Keep your distance from him.

This is something else you should do if a guy starts talking dirty to you.

 

He is talking dirty to you because the two of you are so close.

 

So, the solution is to stay away from him.

 

Keep your distance from him.

 

Don’t reach out to him, don’t go anywhere he invites you, always give him excuses not to be around him, and pretend you are a very busy lady.

 

This will push him away further and he will never have the chance of talking dirty to you.

 

The bond will have been broken and it will take a while before he thinks of talking dirty to you.

 

5. Don’t allow him to cross your limits.

Be straight with him if you hate it when he talks dirty to you.

 

Tell him that the two of you are friends and you will always remain to be friends.

 

So, he should not cross any limits that you have laid for him.

 

Let him know the boundaries so that he doesn’t cross them.

 

You have to be a little bit strict with him so that he understands that you are serious about the limits that you have laid between you and him.

 

Let him know that if he disrespects you in any way the friendship will be terminated.

 

This is enough to stop him from talking dirty to you.

 

6. End the friendship if he persists in doing so.

If he persists in talking dirty to you and yet you have told him everything then end the friendship.

 

It’s clear that he doesn’t value the relationship other than his own feelings.

 

So, end the friendship and eliminate him from your life.

 

If he really wanted the friendship to remain then he would have listened to you.

 

What does it mean when a guy friend talks dirty to you?

When a guy friend talks dirty to you it means he wants an intimate relationship. This shows that he has feelings for you and he would like to be more than a friend to you. Also, it can be that he wants a one-night stand with you.

 

If you have feelings for him and you are okay with it then give him a chance and if you don’t like him then stop him.

 

Lastly…

If a guy starts talking dirty to you then know that he has feelings for you and he wants to be more than just a friend to you.

 

It’s up to you to decide if you want him or not. If you have feelings for him then there is no need to worry. You can go on with the conversation.

 

But if you don’t want a relationship with him then stop him from talking dirty to you. Tell him to maintain the boundaries of the friendship.

 

Let him know that you aren’t comfortable with such kind of conversation. If he cares and respects you then he will stop talking dirty to you. But if he doesn’t care about you he will keep on doing so.

 

You will have to end the friendship if he persists in doing so.

 

Leave your comment if you have a question. Thanks for reading, see you in my next article.

 

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