When He Says You Deserve Better Than Me: It means?

When a guy says “you deserve better than me” it can be confusing especially when you don’t know what he is trying to mean.

 

In this article, I will share with you what it means when a guy says you deserve better than me and I will also share with you some of the reasons why he said that.

 

Without wasting time, let me share with you what you need to know about this.

 

What does it mean when a guy says you deserve better than me?

When a guy says you deserve better than me it means he doesn’t want to be in a relationship with you, he doesn’t think he is worth your type and it can be that he thinks he is not good enough for you.

 

The way he perceives you is what makes him think of you this way. It can be hard to understand what he means but I will make it easier for you.

 

I will explain to you what he meant in the section below.

 

Why he said you deserve better than him;

1. He doesn’t want to be in a relationship with you.

When a guy doesn’t want to be in a relationship with you he will find any excuse not be to be with you.

 

He will either use actions to kick you away or he will use words.

 

If he says you deserve better than him after you have expressed your feelings to him then know that he is trying to disconnect himself from you.

 

He is saying this because he knows it’s the only way he will cut you off without you thinking that he never wanted to be with you.

 

This is just an excuse he is using to dump you or turn you down on any request that you have asked him.

 

When a guy wants to be in a relationship with you then the only thing he will care about is what you feel for him and not how he feels about you deserving him or not.

 

He will let you lead the way because he knows you will handle him the way he wants.

 

But if he starts telling you what you deserve then this is just one way he is using to disconnect himself from you.

 

What does he know about what you deserve?

 

You are the only one who knows what you deserve and that is him. So, if he keeps telling you that you deserve better than him then know that it’s just an excuse to cut you off.

 

He just doesn’t want to date you and that is why he is bringing the issue of you deserving someone else better than him.

 

If he wanted to be with you he wouldn’t have brought that issue forth.

 

2. He thinks he is too bad for you.

When a guy says you deserve better than him it can be that he means what he says.

 

We all know ourselves better.

 

If you think you are not good for someone because you will ruin their life then you will be honest with them.

 

That is if you are a good person. But if you don’t care about them then you will never think of telling them what they deserve. I know you aren’t that person.

 

So, if he says you deserve better than him this means that he knows he is too bad for you.

 

This guy knows that he will make things worse for you and you deserve someone who will treat you nicely.

 

It can be that he thinks his behaviour doesn’t align with yours. Also, it can be that he thinks he will change your lifestyle for the worse.

 

The moment a guy thinks he is not good for you because he will change you from the state you are now to worse then he will be honest with you.

 

He will tell you that you deserve someone better than him so that if you insist on being with him and something bad happens later he will remind you of what he told you.

 

The only thing he will tell you is, “do you remember I told you that you deserve someone better than me?”

 

He doesn’t want to blame him in the future after things between the two of you go south and that is why he is telling you early in advance.

 

If you will be okay to risk your life with him then do it.

 

3. He doesn’t think he will give you what you want.

If he says you deserve someone better than him then know that he thinks he can’t give you what you want.

 

This can be from financial issues to how he will handle you.

 

The moment a guy thinks he will never be able to give you what you this is what he will tell you.

 

He will be frank with you so that if you choose to take him in your life you have an idea that he can’t provide for you what you want.

 

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This guy is telling you that you deserve better than him simply because he knows he can’t match your expectations.

 

For instance, if he has observed that you earning more money than him, you have an expensive lifestyle and you need too much that he can’t offer then he will say this phrase to you (you deserve better than me).

 

When he says you deserve better than me then know that he thinks he can’t give you what you want. He can’t provide for you the pleasure or materialistic things that you may want from him. And this is what makes him think you deserve someone who will provide for you those things.

 

4. He thinks highly of you.

When a guy says you deserve better than me then it can be that he thinks highly of you.

 

He sees you being above his league and that is why he is telling you that you deserve someone better than him.

 

The way you handle yourself before a guy and what you tell him is what will make him think highly of you.

 

If you have been friends for a while and the way he has seen you handling yourself before him made him think so highly of you than himself then when you want to be in a relationship with him he will tell you that you deserve someone better than him.

 

He will tell you that you deserve better because he knows he is not in the league of guys you want to date.

 

And if you end up being with him the only thing you will be doing is to decrease your status.

 

Also, if you have been friends for a while it’s clear you once talked about the kind of guys you would like to date.

 

If what you said made him realize that he is not on that list then this is what he will say to you.

 

He will tell you that you deserve someone better simply because he thinks he is not in the category of guys you would want to date.

 

5. He just wants you to beg him to stay.

When he says you deserve better than me at the moment your relationship with him is about to collapse then know that he wants you to beg him to stay.

 

He knows that when he tells you that you deserve someone better than him you will conclude that he wants to let go of you.

 

And this will make you afraid to lose him. The only thing that you will do it to beg him to stay with you.

 

This is what he wants you to do, he just wants to make you feel insecure so that you keep holding him tight and beg him to stay.

 

We have guys who will do this to make themself feel wanted by you.

 

Some will do this to gauge how you feel about them.

 

Lastly…

 

When he says you deserve better than me after you have expressed your feelings to him then know that this is an excuse he is giving you so that he disconnects himself from you.

 

It can be that he doesn’t want to be in a relationship with you because he doesn’t love you and he thinks if he directly tells you that, he will hurt your feelings.

 

If a guy continues saying you deserve someone better than him even after you have tried to show him that he is the person that deserves you then you should let him go.

 

It can be that what he is telling you about him is true and he doesn’t want to hurt you in future.

 

You never know, he may be toxic. Trust me, you don’t want someone toxic in your life. You are so much better alone.

 

Thanks for reading, if you have any questions leave your comment. See you in my next article.

 

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