In this article, I will share with you some of the instances of when you should fight for a relationship or when to let go.
There are times when you will need to be strong and fight for your relationship no matter what happens.
And there are times when your relationship is no longer worth fighting for. This is the moment you should let go of the relationship.
Sometimes it can be hard to know when to fight for a relationship and when to let it go.
But in this article, I will share with you those moments.
Before I start sharing with you about this issue there is something I would like you to know.
Why should you fight for a relationship? You should fight for a relationship because it’s always better to fix a broken relationship than to build one. Also, when you fight for your relationship you will make it stronger once it’s past that stage of you fighting for it.
Why should you let go of a relationship? You should let go of a relationship if you have tried so much to make it work but every time you try to fix it you break things. Since if you keep pushing yourself so hard to make the relationship work you will end up hurting yourself.
There are times you will have to take a break from that relationship, know these moments from this article below.
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Now that you have an idea of why you should fight for a relationship and why you should let go, let me share with you what you need to know.
When to fight for a relationship;
1. When you feel it’s worth fighting for.
When your relationship is worth fighting for you will feel it deep down.
You will just have the feeling that what you have is the best relationship ever and if you let it go you will be doomed.
The moment when something is worth fighting for you will feel your whole body dragging you into fixing your relationship.
When you try to walk yourself away from the relationship you find yourself at the same point.
No matter what you try to do you find yourself back at the same spot.
If you feel that the relationship is worth fighting for even when people tell you otherwise then that means you should fight for that relationship.
You are the only one feeling this feeling. Even when someone else tells you otherwise you will always end up following your heart.
The moment anyone comes to you and tells you to let go of your relationship or suffer the consequences you will never let it go because you know deep down it’s worth fighting for.
So, if you just have that feeling within you that you should fight for your relationship then that is when you should fight for it.
Trust your instincts because your heart knows what it wants.
This means that your heart and mind is happy with that relationship and if you do otherwise you will regret it later.
2. When there is a chance of saving the relationship.
Don’t let go of your relationship if you see there is a chance of saving it.
As I said earlier, it’s always better to save your relationship than to build a new one.
The moment there is a chance of saving your relationship that is the moment you should not let it go.
You should devote yourself to fixing your relationship no matter what someone else tells you.
If you know that you can apologize to your partner and fix the issues between the two of you then you should do it.
When you know if you decide to sacrifice your time for your partner it will save your relationship from crashing then do it.
Don’t let any chance of saving your relationship walk past you if you see it.
Grab all the opportunities you can come across to save your relationship.
If you know you can use your partner’s family to fix your relationship then go ahead and do it.
When you see there is a chance of saving your relationship go ahead and do it.
This shows that you should fight for your relationship.
When you see a chance of fighting for your relationship do it because some of us never get such chances!
3. When you are so much in love with that person.
The moment you are so much in love with someone and your relationship is about to collapse then you should fight for your relationship.
Love is what brought you to that relationship. Letting that relationship fall into pieces to find love somewhere won’t be something solid.
You will on be hurting yourself and finding love somewhere else apart from where you were used to it will be hell to you.
If you are so much in love with someone and deep down you know that person feels the same for you then this shows that you should fight for that relationship.
People don’t always break up because they hate each other.
If the cause of your relationship crumbling is not based on how you feel about it each other this means there is a chance for your relationship to survive.
You should fight for this relationship and bring everything back to normal.
If there is something that you know it’s the cause of your relationship falling apart make the point of fixing that broken link.
The moment you are so much in love with someone and the relationship is falling apart and it’s not because of how you feel about each other, then make yourself a fool and fight for that relationship.
Step down on your ego and fight for your relationship. Do everything it takes to fight for your relationship but don’t degrade yourself.
It’s very hard to find genuine love nowadays.
4. When the relationship means so much to you.
If your relationship means so much to you then you should fight for it.
The moment you know that without that relationship nothing will work the way you want then you will have no alternative but to fight for it.
You will have to fight for your relationship if that is what makes you have a purpose in your life.
When your relationship means life to you then you should go ahead and fight for it.
For instance, if you know your life will fall into pieces when that relationship falls apart then you shouldn’t let go of that relationship.
The moment you will let it go then your whole life will lack meaning and this means you will never stand up again.
If your relationship means so much to you then don’t let anything stop you from fighting for it.
We have some people whose lives are in shape simply because of the relationships they are in.
There are some people whose lives are better because of the relationship they are in.
So, if you are one of these people don’t ever allow anything to stop you from fighting for your relationship.
5. When you know you will never be happy in another relationship.
If you know that you will never be happy in another relationship then don’t ever let go of that relationship.
Fight for that relationship to your last breath.
Happiness is what we are all searching for in the relationships we find ourselves in.
No matter what you get in a relationship if you will never be happy in it, it will never be fulfilling.
Happiness means everything in a relationship.
So, if deep down you know that you will never be happy with someone else don’t ever try to let go of that relationship.
Keep on fighting for that relationship because that means the world to you.
If that relationship falls into pieces it will be very hard for you to find the happiness you are looking for.
Don’t stop ever stop fighting for your relationship if you know that things will never be the same once that relationship ends.
Trust me, it takes a long time to find someone who will make you happy the way the current one does.
When to let go of a relationship;
1. When your partner doesn’t respect you.
If your partner doesn’t respect you there is no way you will be happy in that relationship.
This means he/she will never care about what you want, he/she will never listen to you and he/she will always invade your privacy.
The moment your partner doesn’t treat you with respect, he or she doesn’t respect any decisions you make and he or she doesn’t respect what you stand for then you should let go of that relationship.
There is no need to be in a relationship with someone who doesn’t respect you.
Don’t force yourself to be with someone who doesn’t care about you.
If you have tried everything to change your partner so that he or she can respect you and he/she doesn’t want to then you will have no option but to end the relationship.
You will have to let it go.
2. When your partner hurts you intentionally.
The moment you are in a relationship with someone and they keep hurting you intentionally, this is when you should let the relationship go.
If your partner hurts you intentionally this means he or she doesn’t care about you.
This also shows that they don’t need you around at all.
A person who needs you around will never hurt you intentionally but he or she will be focused on making you happy.
Don’t be in a relationship with someone who will keep hurting your feelings every single day.
The moment you find your partner hurting your feelings intentionally despite all the effort you have made to make him or her realize that he or she is hurting your feelings, this is when you should let go of the relationship.
Don’t force yourself to be someone who keeps hurting you intentionally.
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You will never be happy in that relationship.
3. When there is no love in that relationship.
How you feel about each other is what will either make the relationship standstill or not.
Love is the only aspect you should use to gauge if your love is worth fighting for or not.
What you feel about each other is what holds you together and this is the same thing that contributes to your happiness.
The moment you don’t feel love in that relationship this is the moment you should let go of the relationship.
If you have tried everything to rekindle the spark but you feel nothing this is a sign you should let go of the relationship.
What you need to know is that love changes over time depending on how you treat each other in a relationship.
Today you may be in love with your partner and tomorrow it may be a different case.
So, if you don’t feel the spark of love in your relationship no matter how hard you have tried to rekindle it, this is when you should let it go.
Don’t force yourself to be in a relationship where no love exists.
You will only be hurting yourself in the long run.
4. When the relationship is toxic.
When your relationship is toxic there is no need to think much about this.
The only option you will have is to let it go.
The moment your partner treats you badly and at the same time he or she imposes pain on you don’t stick to that relationship.
If your partner beats you up, controls you, uses you and handles you like a piece of trash you should let him or her go.
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Don’t stay in a toxic relationship no matter how much you benefit from that relationship.
No matter how much you feel for that person if he or she is toxic walk away from him or her.
If it means for your life to fall into pieces when you walk away from that relationship, let it happen.
At least you will be in peace and not in pieces.
Don’t stick to a toxic relationship thinking that your partner will change at some point.
The more you will be in that relationship the more you will be hurting yourself and you will end up finding it hard to let go of that relationship.
When your relationship is toxic let it go without thinking too hard because that is not what you deserve.
You deserve better than that.
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5. When you aren’t happy in that relationship.
We all get into relationships because we want to be happy. Even if your main motive for entering a relationship was not for happiness the things you will get from it will all results in happiness.
Happiness is everything in a relationship. If you can’t be happy in your relationship then know that something is missing.
If you are not happy in a relationship and you have tried everything to change this situation and nothing seems to be working then you should let go of the relationship.
The lack of happiness in that relationship means you are lacking something very dear to you.
And if the person you are with can’t give you that one thing that can make you happy then there is no need to stay in that relationship.
Let go of that relationship because there is no point in you being with someone who can’t give you what you want.
If you are not happy in a relationship this is a sign you should let it go.
6. When you have to change your personality to please someone.
When someone wants you to change your personality for him or her to love you then this means they don’t accept you for who you are.
If someone wants you to change something within you that you care about then don’t ever do it.
This is when you should let go of that relationship.
There is no need for you to change something within you that means so much to you for you to please someone.
Is there a guarantee that that person will love you for eternity?
Eternity is something that doesn’t exist in the real world. It exists in movies and dreams.
When someone wants you to change something within you for you to please them this is when you should let that relationship go.
If someone won’t love you for who you are let them go.
If deep down you feel that your relationship is worth fighting for then you should not let it go.
Don’t let go of your relationship simply because of what someone else thinks of it.
This is something you should never do. The only thing you should care about is what you feel and how your partner perceives you.
If you are not happy, you don’t feel loved and cared for in your relationship this is when you should let go of the relationship.
These feelings are very essential in any relationship.
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