Why Do Guys Cheat Early In A Relationship? (Explained)

why guys cheat early in relationships

You may be wondering why guys cheat early in a relationship. This is especially when the relationship is new.

 

In this article, I will share with you some of the reasons why guys do cheat early in a new relationship.

 

We all know that most of the relationships at the beginning are always so hard to manage.

 

If you want to know why that is so don’t fail to read this article.

 

You might like this: Why Are Relationships So Hard At The Beginning? (+ How to fix).

 

So, these difficulties that are there when a relationship is still new is what makes guys go to the extent of cheating.

 

Though, I don’t justify cheating at all. If a guy cheats on you, it doesn’t matter whether it’s early or later he has done something wrong.

 

Before I sway out of this topic let me share with you some of the reasons why guys cheat early in a relationship.

 

This is why guys cheat early in a relationship;

 

1. The relationship is not yet strong.

When a relationship is still new it’s obvious that the bond will not be that strong.

 

So, when the relationship is not yet strong then the guys will not be too much attached to it.

 

So, if a guy is not attached to the relationship then he will not have strong principles to protect the new relationship.

 

This will make it easy for the guys to be tempted by other girls and they will find themselves cheating so early in the relationship.

 

The moment the relationship is stable then it will be very hard for a guy to cheat.

 

This is because he knows that the relationship is where he wants it to be.

 

This does not only happen with guys, even women can find themselves cheating early in the relationship.

 

This will happen because the bond is not that strong in the relationship.

 

2. The guys are still not sure if they can stay in that relationship.

When guys enter a new relationship they usually have that uncertainty in them.

 

This does not only happen with guys.

 

Everyone when he or she enters a new relationship there will be doubts about the relationship if it can work or not.

 

You might like this: 5 Ways To Be Sure About Relationships (+ What to do if unsure).

 

So, when guys are still unsure about the new relationship then it will be very hard for them to stay loyal and start to be committed to it.

 

This will make guys start cheating early in the relationship.

 

Until they stay for a while in that relationship. So, that they can get to be sure about the relationship is when this habit of cheating will stop.

 

If a guy is unsure if he is going to stay in that relationship then he will not commit to it.

 

Anyway, it takes time before someone gets to be sure that he or she can stay in that relationship.

 

3. They will cheat when they still have unfinished business with their exes.

Guys will cheat early in a relationship if they have unfinished business with their exes.

 

What I realize is that most guys find it hard to move on from their exes.

 

Most guys act like everything is okay after a break-up but some months later is when they will start to feel the effect of the break-up.

 

Those few months later is when they found themselves in other relationships.

 

The moment a guy starts to feel the effect of the break up while he is already in a new relationship then this will be hard for him to stay in his new relationship.

 

If this break-up hits this guy so hard then he will find himself going back to his ex.

 

When he goes back to his ex then he will find himself in bed with his ex.

 

That will have made him cheat early in the relationship.

 

So, these unfinished businesses are what make guys cheat early in a new relationship.

 

4. They are still struggling to fit in the relationship.

why guys cheat when the relationship is still new

 

When a relationship is new or developing then this will come with different changes.

 

These changes might be so hard to handle.

 

As in at the beginning of the relationship everyone is trying too hard to get to understand his or her partner.

 

Also, to get to understand what your partner wants.

 

This doesn’t guarantee that things at the beginning of the relationship will be cool.

 

So, when guys find it hard to fit in the relationship when it’s new or developing then they usually pull away and become distant.

 

Since the relationship is new most guys don’t want to show that they are pulling away.

 

They will act like everything is cool with the progress of the relationship.

 

This is something that can make guys find themselves cheating with someone else who they don’t find it hard to understand.

 

This is one of the reasons why guys cheat early in a relationship.

 

5. Guys cheat early in a relationship because they aren’t used to the current person they are dating.

This is another reason why guys cheat early in a relationship.

 

When you are dating someone and you just met him or her and you both moved too fast in that relationship, you won’t be used to each other.

 

So, when you aren’t used to the person you are dating currently then, it will be very hard for you to express what you feel to that person.

 

Also, guys will find it hard to make a romantic move on the girls they are dating if they aren’t used to them.

 

We have those guys that are afraid of what their partners might think of them when they make a move too fast.

 

This makes it hard for these guys to express their feelings to the person they are dating.

 

What do you think will happen if they need someone to have fun with?

 

They will eventually cheat.

 

This is one of the reasons that makes guys cheat early in a relationship.

 

6. Some guys are just not used to sticking to one woman.

We have those guys who are not used to sticking to one chick.

 

These are the kinds of people who will cheat early in a relationship.

 

It doesn’t matter whether the relationship is new or old they will keep on cheating.

 

So, if you met a guy who isn’t used to sticking to one partner then he will cheat early in that relationship.

 

You might like this: Why Can’t Men Stick To One Woman (+ how to make them stick)

 

Also, we have those guys who are used to cheating.

 

They will cheat early in the relationship.

 

Is it possible for someone to love you and still cheat on you?

You have to understand that when someone cheats on you several reasons might have made him or her do that.

 

You might like this: 7 top reasons why ladies cheat in relationships and 7 reasons why men cheat in relationships.

 

So, if you want to know if it’s possible for someone to love you and still cheat on you then this is what I can tell you.

 

It is possible for someone to love you and still cheat on you because of several reasons. For instance, if you don’t have time for him or her and yet he or she needs someone urgently then he or she will end up cheating on you yet he/she loves you.

 

Also, sometimes people don’t cheat because they want to. Things might happen and someone might find himself or herself out of control.

 

Let us say you are drunk at the club and you meet your ex. You will eventually hang out and the next day you will find yourself in bed with him or her.

 

So, if someone cheats on you, it doesn’t mean that he or she doesn’t love you.

 

It’s possible for someone to love you and still cheat on you.

 

Would you still be able to love someone after they have been unfaithful?

If you love someone so much and you don’t think you will find anyone who you will connect with the way you connect with him or her, then no matter what he or she does you will still love him or her.

 

You will still be able to love someone after they have been unfaithful if your connection between the two of you is strong. You will feel hurt but if you all decide to reconcile that issue you will still be able to love each other.

 

It’s possible to still love someone after they have been unfaithful.

 

If you want to know if a relationship can work after your partner has cheated on you then check out this article.

 

You might like this: Can A Relationship Work After Cheating? (+ how to fix it after)

 

If you love someone and he or she loves you back you will still love him or her even after he or she has been unfaithful.

 

Lastly…

Guys cheat early in a relationship because handling a relationship at the beginning is usually not an easy task. Some guys will also find it hard to express what they feel in a new relationship.

 

This is another thing that causes guys to cheat early in a relationship.

 

A guy might love you but still cheat on you. It can be that you can’t handle him the way he wants but at the same time, he doesn’t want to walk away from you.

 

In such a situation a guy will find himself cheating on you.

 

Anyway, cheating is something bad in a relationship. When it happens the card is on you. You have the power either to end the relationship or make the relationship better.

 

If you have any questions don’t hesitate to leave them in the comment section.

 

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