Why Do Guys Pick Fights For No Reason (+What To Do)

When guys pick fights for no reason in a relationship there is always something bothering them.

 

To be honest, nothing can happen without a reason.

 

In this article, I’m going to share with you why guys pick fights for no reason and what you can do about it.

 

But first, before I go deep on this topic let us find out what it means when a guy picks fights for no reason.

 

What does it mean when a guy picks a fight for no reason?

As I said earlier that everything that a guy does in a relationship always has a reason.

 

So, if you are wondering why he picks fights for no reason then this is what you have to know.

 

When a guy picks a fight for no reason with you this means that he is tired and faded up with you. He wants to walk away from you but he doesn’t know how to tell you. Also, it shows that something bothers him.

 

Some guys are not that good at expressing their feelings. So, they pick fights to express what they feel.

 

You have to understand that when a guy constantly picks a fight with you yet you have tried everything you can to eliminate every reason that might make him mad then he is just searching for a reason to walk away.

 

Before you reach this conclusion with me, take your time and think. Has this been happening at the beginning of the relationship?

 

If it’s something that happens once in a while after a very long period of time then this might be something else.

 

If a guy picks a fight with you for no reason after a long period of time, there is a gap of time before the fight happened. This shows that he has moods swings. So, when his moods change he gets mad thus the fights.

 

 

If it has started recently after you have been together for a very long time then there is an issue. Don’t worry I will be talking about the solution soon.

 

Before I share with you the solution I would like you to understand every possibility of why this happens.

 

There are several reasons why guys do pick fights for reasons in a relationship.  

 

This is why guys do pick fights in a relationship without a reason;

 

1. Guys do pick fights in a relationship for no reason because they are tired and fade up.

The moment a guy is tired and faded up in a relationship with you there is nothing that will prevent him from picking fights.

 

This usually happens after you have been dating for a very long period of time.

 

When things get boring in the relationship and there is no anything amazing happening in the relationship then this might make him get tired and start picking fights for no reason.

 

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Do you know that the repetitive cycle of things can make someone get bored and aggressive at the same time?

 

So, when it reaches the extent that he is tired and faded up with the way things go between the two of you then you should expect this.

 

It happens because he doesn’t want to open up to you. He keeps things to himself so when things in his head erupt he fails to have control of them thus the fights.

 

2. Guys pick fights for no reason because there is something that you did that bothers them.

 

If you have done something to a guy and he is afraid to confront you then you should expect this to happen.

 

The moment a guy finds that you have done something that annoys him and you keep on doing it and he has no courage to face you then he will keep it to himself.

 

When these issues accumulate in his head then he will get mad every time you do something wrong and pick fights for no reason.

 

He can’t face you on the things that you did so he takes his anger on something else.

 

3. Guys pick fights for no reason just to push you away further.

Guys do pick a fight for no reason to push you away. They know that when they start picking fights you will not be able to withstand that.

 

So, if a guy intends to push you away he will start picking fights with you for no reason.

 

The moment a guy doesn’t want you around but he can’t tell you straight to your face then he will start picking fights for no reason.

 

As we all know no one will be able to stay in a relationship that people are constantly fighting.

 

You will be distant because of this habit and that is what he exactly wants.

 

4. Guys do pick fights for no reason when they want your attention.

As I said earlier that we have men who can’t express themselves using words.

 

So, if he can’t express himself to you because of the things that keep tormenting him then he will use this way, of picking up fights with you for no reason.

 

If you have been ignoring him for a while, you have no time for him and you don’t talk to him that much then you should expect this.

 

He will pick up fights for no reason just to get your attention.

 

When a fight happens in a relationship you will be concerned about finding the perfect solution for what happened.

 

This will make you start to talk to him frequently to find out what’s happening with him.

 

You will also spend time with him—all this is to get to know what happened.

 

By doing all these things you will be giving him the attention he wants. So, this is one of the reasons why guys pick fights for no reason.

 

5. Guys do pick fights for no reason just to find a way to break up with you.

If a man wants to break up with you and he has no reason to do that then he will come up with so many ways to make that happen.

 

One of the ways that he will come up with is to start picking fights with you for no reason.

 

He will pick these fights because he knows that he will annoy you, and when you get mad you will stop talking to him even prefer to break up with him.

 

This is exactly what he wants you to do. He can’t be honest enough with you that is why he is behaving this way.

 

So, when a guy wants a reason to break up with you he will do every sort of negative thing just to make you angry.

 

He knows that you won’t be able to withstand this and you definitely call it a quit. This is exactly what he expects you to do.

 

He starts arguments for no reason.

 

When a guy starts arguments we all know that they will end up in a fight. This might also be similar to the same case of him picking fights for no reason.

 

If a guy starts arguments with you for no reason this shows that he is uncomfortable being around you or something about you keeps on bothering him. Also, it can be that he wants to find a reason to push you away that is why all the arguments.

 

You have to know that what a man does in a relationship has a reason behind it. So, take your time to think of how the things between the two of you are going.

 

Is your relationship stable? If you have issues that you have never cleared between the two of you then this might be the cause. If your relationship is in perfect health then it might be that he has his own hidden agenda.

 

What does it mean when a guy argues with you?

When a guy argues with you then this means he is totally mad at you. You have annoyed him to the peak that is why he arguing with you. You might have done something that is totally against his principles that is why he argues with you.

 

What to do when a guy starts a fight for no reason.

When a guy starts a fight for no reason the first thing to do is find out why this happens. If there is a fault in your relationship then work on fixing it. If your relationship is well then talk to him and give him your attention things will get better.

 

Lastly…

If you have tried everything you can to make him stop picking fights and arguments and he still does the same then you have no choice but to walk away from that relationship.

 

There is no need to keep staying in that relationship because at any time it can turn to be unhealthy.

 

He doesn’t want you around, why should you waste your time on someone who isn’t willing to keep you around?

 

If he was really in love with you then he wouldn’t have started picking fights with you for no reason. He would be thinking of making the relationship better other than ruining it.

 

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