If a guy only asks you to come over and you are wondering why he is only interested in that then this is the right article for you.
When the only thing a guy asks you to do is to come over then you should know that he is only interested in your body and not you.
A guy who likes you will not only ask you to come over but he will show different signs that he is interested in being with you.
Without wasting time, let me share with you some of the things you need to know about why he only asks you to come over.
Why he only asks you to come over;
1. He is not serious about you.
If the only thing he always asks you to do is to come over then know that he is not serious about you.
This guy is only interested in one thing from you and once he gets it he will walk away from you.
When you have met a guy and you have known each other for a very short time and the only thing he is trying to do is to get you to go to his place then this is what you should know.
A serious guy will never ask you to come over within the first week or a month you have known each other.
The only thing he will do is to try to make you comfortable with him, he will want to get to know you, he will want to hang out with you in an open place and he will try to make you fall for him.
But if this guy the only thing he is doing is to ask you to come over then know that he is not serious about you.
It can be that he wants to see your reaction to what you will do or say when he asks you to come over.
If this guy has never tried to express his feelings to you but the only thing he does is to ask you to come over then you should stop talking to him.
Ignore his texts and calls and if it’s possible block him.
2. He wants you to be friends with benefits.
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When a guy doesn’t want to be in a relationship with you simply because he doesn’t want to commit to you or he just prefers a casual thing he will want you to be friends with benefits with you.
The moment a guy is oriented to this kind of relationship the only thing he will do is show you sexual gestures.
The first thing you will notice from him are the words that he will be talking to you.
This guy will send you dirty texts, he won’t about anything but sexual relationships with you and he will try to lure you into his bed even when you haven’t shown him that you are interested in him.
When a guy wants you to be friends with benefits the only thing he will want from you is sex.
The only thing you should expect from this kind of relationship is sex.
So, when a guy only asks you to come over to his house then this is what you should know.
If you are not ready for such kind of a relationship then you should avoid this guy even if you have feelings for him.
This guy is not ready for any serious relationship and if you force yourself on him you will only end up hurting yourself.
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He will take you for granted and once he gets what he wants from you he will walk away.
3. He wants to use you.
If the only thing he does is to ask you to come over then know that he is planning to use you.
He wants to manipulate you and once he is done with that he will walk away from you.
When a guy wants to use you he will try to keep you in situations he knows you won’t resist him.
If you go to his house he will try to take advantage of you.
He might get you drunk and end up taking advantage of you when you are drunk.
And there is nothing you will be able to do about this.
He wants you to come over simply because he knows he will have the added advantage when you are in his house.
If he has never shown you that he is interested in a serious relationship with you don’t go over to his house unless you have a clear picture of what he wants from you.
You can ask him to meet you in coffee shops and open places if he wants to talk to you.
If he wants to talk to you then he will not find it a big deal to go out and meet you.
4. He thinks you are so desperate for him.
When a guy finds out that you are into him and he doesn’t feel the same for you he will try to take advantage of you.
The moment he realizes that you are in love with him and he knows even if he does anything wrong there is no way you will push him away this is what he will try to do.
Men will want to smash you when they notice you are into them and they aren’t
So, if you have shown any interest in him and he noticed that you are so much into him, he will try to do this.
He will ask you to come over knowing it’s something you won’t deny simply because you are into him.
On the other hand, if you are into him you won’t say no about this.
If he keeps asking you to come over without even trying to let you know that he is interested in you then know that he thinks you are desperate for him.
He thinks you will do anything for him since you are so much into him.
5. He wants to make a move on you.
This is one of the reasons why he wants you to come over. When a guy wants you to come over then know that he wants to make his move on you.
He knows that when you go to his house he will have the chance of making a move on you.
You will be in a private space and this will make it perfect for him to make his romantic move on you.
If this guy has never shown any interest in you and he is always asking you to come over then know that this is what he is trying to do.
He wants to make a move on you.
Now, that you know his intention, if you feel the same for him then make a point of going to his place.
But if you don’t feel the same for him then don’t go to his place.
When a guy only asks you to come over it means he is only after one thing from you.
And that is sex. The moment he will get you in his bed there is no way he will contact you again.
Also, if he keeps asking you to come over then know that he only wants you to be friends with benefits.
He doesn’t want a serious relationship with you.
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