Why He Only Sees You As A Friend (+How To Change That)

If this guy only sees you as a friend and you are wondering why that is so then I will share with you these reasons.

 

In this article, I will share with you several reasons why he only sees you as a friend and what you can do to change that.

 

I know it can be frustrating when you feel something for someone and the only way they perceive you is as being a friend to them.

 

Anyway, there is something you can do to change this, without wasting time, let me enlighten you.

 

Why he only sees you as a friend;

1. He doesn’t have feelings for you.

This is the first reason why he only sees you as a friend yet you want him to perceive you differently.

 

He only sees you as a friend because he doesn’t have feelings for you.

 

The truth is that if he felt anything for you then he wouldn’t have been perceiving you as a friend.

 

The first thing he would have done is to try to win your interest.

 

But when a guy has no feelings for you since he first met you there is no way he will see you differently.

 

You might even go a sleepover at his place and he will just handle you like his sister.

 

So, don’t think too much.

 

It can be that he finds you attractive but he doesn’t feel anything for you.

 

For a guy to perceive you to be more than a friend he has to have feelings for you.

 

There is something you can do about this, I will share with you what you can do at the end of this article.

 

2. You handle him like a friend.

This is another reason why he sees you as a friend.

 

What I can tell you is that the way you handle yourself around a guy is the exact way he will perceive you.

 

If you handle yourself like a freak before him then he will perceive you that way.

 

On the other hand, if you handle yourself like someone who needs him then that is how he will perceive you.

 

So, this guy only sees you as a friend because you handle him like a friend.

 

The moment you want a guy to see you differently then you will have to change the way handle him.

 

If you want him to see you as a woman he will want to date then handle him in a way he will feel you expect more from him.

 

But if you always handle a guy like a friend then the only thing he will see you is as a friend.

 

And that will never change unless you do something about it.

 

Some guys will never perceive you differently unless you give them the impression that you expect more from them.

 

This is because if you keep handling a guy like a friend the only thing he will think of you is that you don’t find him to be the type of guy you would want to be with.

 

3. You have never shown him that you want to be more than a friend to him.

This is another reason why he only sees you as a friend.

 

If you are in love with a guy and you want him to perceive you different then you will have to gather your courage.

 

You have to make him notice you.

 

Get his attention and show him what you want him to be and this will change the way he sees you.

 

The moment a guy doesn’t have your attention and he doesn’t know if you have a thing for him there is no way he will perceive you differently.

 

A guy will never be your boyfriend if you won’t express what you feel for him.

 

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For him to be your boyfriend you will have to express your feelings to him and this will make him perceive you differently.

 

So, if you have never shown him that you are romantically interested in him then don’t expect him to see you differently.

 

He will only see you as a friend because he doesn’t know how you feel for him.

 

For him to change how he sees you then you will have to show him signs that you want to be perceived differently.

 

Let him know that you are interested in him in either words or actions and he will change how he perceives you.

 

4. You are so friendly with each other.

This is another reason why he only sees you as a friend.

 

Your relationship is another factor that makes him perceive you as a friend.

 

The moment you befriend yourself with a guy and you intend to win him then you should not be too friendly with him.

 

You should give him mixed signals.

 

Don’t make up his mind based on the fact that you only want to be friends with him.

 

The moment you become too friendly with him it will be very hard for him to even express his feelings for you.

 

This is because deep in his mind he knows you are only friends and there is nothing more between the two of you.

 

So, when you are too friendly to a guy to an extent his mind made it up that you are only friends then that is how he will view you.

 

This will never change unless you switch the path that your relationship with him is taking.

 

5. He has never thought of dating you.

This is another reason why he only sees you as a friend.

 

What you need to know is that every guy has some qualities that he is looking for in a woman he wants to be with.

 

The moment a guy approaches you then know that he has seen something in you that attracted him.

 

He has seen the qualities he is looking for and that is why he made the move on you.

 

So, if this guy never saw the qualities of the kind of woman he wants to date in you then this could be one of the reasons why he only sees you as a friend.

 

Since he hasn’t seen those qualities in you his mind just noted you as a girl he wouldn’t want to date.

 

And this is the main reason why he only sees you as a friend.

 

If you had the qualities he was looking for then he would have perceived you differently.

 

Is there anything you can do to change how he sees you? Yes! Continue reading.

 

What to do when a guy only sees you as a friend.

When a guy sees you only as a friend the first thing you should do is to change how you handle him, don’t handle him like a friend, show him you are romantically interested in him, make him notice you and make him interested in you.

 

Change the way you handle him. Make the habit of flirting with him and make him yearn more for you and pull away.

 

When you come across him wink to him and just pretend as if nothing happened.

 

Also, sacrifice your time and hang out with him alone, be curious to know more about you and ask him questions that will make him realize you want more from him than just hanging out like friends.

 

These are some of the things that will change how he perceives you.

 

Play with his mind, get closer to him and pull away. Send a mixed signal to him and he will eventually get tired of waiting for you to get closer and he will make a move on you.

 

So, if you want a guy to see and perceive you differently you have to up your game.

 

This is the only way you will change how he perceives you.

 

Lastly…

 

What you should take away from this article, is the part of you handling him and showing him that you are interested in him.

 

These are the mains things that will change how he perceives you.

 

Disclaimer: These ways will not work for a guy who doesn’t have feelings for you and doesn’t find you to be his type.

 

A guy who has no feelings for you will never perceive you differently even when you express your feelings for him.

 

If someone doesn’t feel something for you then nothing can change that.

 

Also, if he doesn’t find you to be his type there is no way he will see you as more than a friend.

 

So, if you try hard to make him see you differently and things don’t work the way you expect then you should know that you are not the kind of person he wants to be with.

 

Anyway, there is no need to force yourself on someone you can’t have. You will only be hurting yourself.

 

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Thanks for reading, if you have any questions leave your comment. See you in my next article.

 

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