Your Girlfriend Doesn’t Want To Spend Time With You: Do This

If your girlfriend doesn’t spend time with you completely or she doesn’t give you much of her time then this is what you can do. 

 

There is nothing that frustrates much than wanting to spend time with the person you love and you end failing to have him or her around.

 

Time is a very important aspect of a relationship. So, couples have to spend time together if they want their relationship to work.

 

Time in a relationship is just like the other pillars of relationships; trust, commitment and communication. You do know that pillar is what can keep the house standing, once the pillar is messed up, the house might end up falling down.

 

You can love each other and make all kinds of promises to each other but if you fail to have time for each other the relationship will end up failing.

 

I talked about the significance of couples spending time together in the article that I wrote in Her Beauty. You may want to read it because it’s all related to the case I’m trying to help you through.

 

You might like this: 4 reasons why relationship needs quality time.

 

What does it mean when someone doesn’t want to spend time with you?

 

If you are wondering what it means when your girlfriend doesn’t want to spend time with you then this is means.

 

When someone doesn’t want to spend time with you it means they have lost interest in you. This might have made them change their priority and focus to someone else with whom they have an interest. If you were the person they were interested in then they wouldn’t have kept you aside.

 

keep it in your mind that if a person finds you so important to him or her then he or she will always want to spend time with you unless there is something so bad going on.

 

If you are interested in someone and you prioritize him or her then you will always want to be around him or her.

 

So, if your girlfriend has started losing interest in you then she will struggle on spending time with you, and when she finally lost all interest in you she will never spend even a second with you.

 

The love and feelings you have for someone are what will keep you wanting to spend more time with him or her.

 

When these are missing in a relationship then the commitment in it will flop too.

 

Anyway, don’t worry too much I have an article that will help you to know how to get the interest of your girlfriend back.

 

You might like this: if your girlfriend lost interest in you: Get it back.

 

My girlfriend makes time for everyone but me.

If your girlfriend gives her time to everyone; your friends and her friends but whenever you ask her to spend time with you she refuses then this is clearly that she doesn’t want you anymore.

 

The only thing she hasn’t told you is “I Don’t Love You”

 

Anyway, it’s hard for a girl to tell you straight into your face that “I don’t love you”

 

The only things you will come across when she is no longer in love with you are the signs that I talked about them deeply in this article.

 

You might like this: 11 signs she doesn’t love you.

 

If your girlfriend makes time for everyone but you this shows that she is no longer in love with you. She is doing this to clearly tell you that she doesn’t want you around. Furthermore, when she does this she knows that she will push you away—that is what she wants.

 

Sometimes when we find it hard to kick away the people in our lives we end up using actions to convey this.

 

So, your girlfriend is probably doing the same. I’m sure at the beginning of your relationship this was not the case.

 

Anyway, you have to understand that love changes over time. Love can either grow stronger or grow weaker depending on the effort couples put into it.

 

There is an article I will recommend you to read if you want to understand how love changes over time.

 

You might like this: How love changes over time.

 

What can I do to make her spend time with me?

It doesn’t matter what your girlfriend means when she completely refuses to spend time with you, the only thing you need is a solution to this problem.

 

If you love your girlfriend, then you would do everything possible to bring back everything to normal, the way it was.

 

You can’t give up when you have asked her out several times and she has refused to meet you.

 

There is something you can do about it to make her want to spend more time with you.

 

This is what to do to make your girlfriend spend more time with you;

 

 

1. Figure out why she doesn’t want to spend time with you anymore.

There is nothing you can do if you don’t know the reason why your girlfriend doesn’t want to spend time with you.

 

So, find the reasons why your girlfriend doesn’t want to spend time with you anymore.

 

You can find these reasons by first checking the status of your relationship. Is your relationship working? Is your relationship meeting your expectations? Is your relationship strong or it has a lot of unresolved issues?

 

When you find that your relationship is in a bad condition then start making changes that will make your relationship whole again.

 

The other way you can find out the reasons why she doesn’t want to spend time with you is to ask her.

 

Text her and have a conversation with her if she hasn’t already blocked you. Make a conversation with her that will make her open up. Dig deep in her and find out why she doesn’t want to spend time with you.

 

2. Fix the unresolved issues between the two of you.

There is a great possibility that your relationship is a bad shape that is why your girlfriend doesn’t want to spend time with you.

 

So, the only thing you can do to make her spend time with you again is to fix the broken pieces of your relationship.

 

Start by resolving any conflicts between the two of you. If there was a fight or an argument that was never resolved it’s time to deal with it.

 

If you lied to each other and kept secrets from each other then it’s time to make everything open with each other.

 

This doesn’t guarantee that she will spend time again with you immediately but it might be the start of her coming around gradually.

 

If the relationship is in a good shape then she will eventually come back to you and give you her full attention.

 

3. Do things that she is interested in to grab her attention.

It may be that she doesn’t want to spend time with you because the things you do when you are together don’t fascinate her at all.

 

You might be doing things that only make you happy and you have forgotten her interest.

 

This will definitely make her not willing to spend time with you. So, it’s not too late to try to change things for her.

 

Do it for her, and let her know that you have changed what you used to do when you were together so that you can impress her.

 

Find the things and activities that she likes to do. Invest your time in learning those activities and ask her to come and see them.

 

For instance, if she was working on a project, take your time and try to complete it, this will intrigue her and she might be interested to see how you have been doing it.

 

This will eventually make her want to spend more time with you, the longer she will be around she will eventually, get used to being around you and you would have solved it.

 

4. Get her interest back: make her love you more.

You will never succeed in making her spend time with you because she has lost interest in you.

 

There is no shortcut when it comes to this, you will have to work on making her love you more.

 

You can do this the easy way. The one way that I think is easy is to invest your time in her though she isn’t willing to invest hers in you.

 

If she doesn’t want to spend time with you and you end up accepting that then you wouldn’t have solved this.

 

You have to be persistent the more she keeps pushing you away, try harder to get closer to her.

 

Get closer to her and keep doing the things that you know got her attracted to you in the first place.

 

Take your time in talking to her even if she won’t answer back. When she notices that you are making this all effort for her she will definitely know that she means a lot to you.

 

Give her a reason to get you back in her life and lobe you even more. The good thing is that ladies love men who are persistent in what they want.

 

When you do the things that she likes, you have time for her, you behave in a way that she always wants you to then you will get her interest back.

 

Here is an article on how you can make your girlfriend love you more that I would highly recommend you read it.

 

You might like this: 11 ways to make your girlfriend love you more.

 

5. Let her know how deep it hurts you when she doesn’t want to be around for you.

 

You may be finding it a big deal when she doesn’t want to spend time with you.

 

Your girlfriend might think it’s not an issue at all.

 

You might never know what she is thinking if you won’t take a step in digging deep within her.

 

Be honest with her and let her know much it hurts you when she is doesn’t want to be around you.

 

Let her see and know the pain you go through for her depriving you of her time.

 

Don’t be afraid of telling the risk she is putting your relationship in. Make it clear to her so that she understands what she is doing.

 

If she really cares about you she will get touched by what you will tell her. All in all, it’s better to be open to her and let her decide the fate of the relationship.

 

6. Give her time she will come around if she still loves you.

If you have tried everything you can to get her back and she has refused to spend time with you then there is nothing more you can do other than giving her time.

 

Give her time if she loves you she will come around. Let her think of what matters to her, what she wants with the relationship and reevaluate the relationship.

 

She might not have told you that she needs time to herself but you will have to give her space and see how she will respond.

 

If your girlfriend doesn’t want to spend time with you it may be that she wants to solve some issues that are bothering her.

 

When you have tried everything you can, just give her time. Don’t text her or call her in the period you have decided to give her time.

 

If there is still a spark of love for you in her heart, she will eventually come back to you.

 

Lastly…

If your girlfriend doesn’t want to spend time with you no matter how hard you try to convince this is clear that she isn’t into you.

 

This also tells you that she doesn’t care about you anymore. The only thing you can do is to let her go. There nothing much you can do about it.

 

That relationship will never work out. Relationships need quality time for them to survive. Keep that in your mind.

 

She might be investing her time in someone else she finds appropriate.

 

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